This movie really effected me. I generally can REALLY say that "everybody's fine" and it really means a lot to me. And I don't take it for granted. I feel like I should kiss the floor every morning that I'm so lucky at least for now. Accept your family as they are and be HONEST with them. It'll pay off in the long run. Kudos to DeNiro. Devastatingly fine performance. I learned my lesson, Bob!