This is the gist of this story.
Below are three stories that support how to deal with the fact that nature defends nature by nature.
1. An old Cherokee teaches his grandson about life:
"There's a fight going on inside me," he told the boy. "It's a terrible fight and it's between two wolves. One is bad - it is anger, envy, sadness, regret, greed, arrogance, self-pity, guilt, resentment, inferiority, lies, false pride, superiority and ego."
He continued: "The other is good-he is joy, peace, love, hope, serenity, humility, kindness, benevolence, empathy, generosity, truth, compassion, and faith. The same battle is going on inside you-and inside every other person."
The grandson thought about it for a moment and then asked his grandfather, "Which wolf will win?"
The old Cherokee replied, "The one that you feed."
2. However, there's another version of the story that ends this way:
The old Cherokee replied, "If you feed them right, they both win." And he continues with: "You see, if I choose to feed only the white wolf, the black one will hide around every corner, waiting for me to get distracted or weak and jump to get the attention it craves. He will always be angry and always fight against the white wolf. But if I recognize him, he is happy and the white wolf is happy and we all win. For the black wolf has many qualities-tenacity, courage, intrepidity, willpower, and great strategic thinking -that I sometimes need that the white wolf does not have. But the white wolf has compassion, caring, strength and the ability to recognize what is in everyone's best interest.
You see, son, the white wolf needs the black wolf by his side. If you fed just one, the other would starve and they will become uncontrollable. Feeding and caring for both means they will serve you well and do nothing that isn't part of something bigger, something good, something of life. Feed them both and there will be no more internal battle for your attention. And when there is no battle within, you can listen to the voices of deeper knowing that will guide you in choosing what is right in every circumstance. Peace, my son, is the Cherokee mission in life. A man or a woman who has peace within has everything. A man or a woman who is torn apart in him or her by the war, has nothing.
"How you choose to deal with the opposing forces within you will define your life. Starve one or the other or lead them both."
3. In my world there's an addition to both versions:
Namely, there is also a third wolf: a grey one. Where the black wolf becomes angry and the white wolf kind, the grey one remains indifferent. As a result, this wolf remains open to all the possibilities that life brings, without doing anything and without judgment. This wolf is also important, because if I had to judge everything or do something with everything, then I would not be able to live.
Everything I feed and give attention that grows. The attention to the grey wolf is necessary to be able to discover and learn other possibilities instead of continuing to focus on something that makes me angry or kind.
In essence: the grey wolf can distract me from the contradictions within myself, because not all contradictions are solvable and that leads to fear, pain and addictions. When necessary, the grey wolf helps me to shift my focus and attention to something else.
Each of the three wolves also has two coloured eyes. The black wolf has a white eye and a grey eye, the white wolf has a black eye and a grey eye and the grey wolf has a white eye and a black eye. In this way they continue to recognize and find each other and form one whole. That whole is more than the sum of its parts. Within me, the three wolves find the connection with each other to offer each other the space for what I need to be able to live and survive, both within myself and my environment.
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