Let's Ruin It with Babies (2014) User Reviews

Lackadaisical plot and too 'indie' for its own good - but nice debut for Kestrin Pantera

[ArchonCinemaReviews · 5/10 · 29 January 2015]

I was seriously misinformed when it came to my expectations of Let's Ruin it with Babies – but that's okay, the film was pretty good anyway.

Inspired by and based loosely on Kestrin Pantera's real life, Let's Ruin it with Babies is about a carefree bohemian woman named Channing as she comes of age and accepts adulthood.

Let's Ruin It With Babies thinks its plot summary is: "Channing has it all: a beautiful home, a rock star lifestyle, and a loving husband intent on ruining it all by knocking her up."

But it would be wrong. Yes, Channing and Chaz, her husband, are pretty cool cats. They own a swanky abode and have quirky cool dinner parties and talk about real hipster issues. They even own their own business, a super hip RVip Transportainment vehicle that combines drinking, karaoke singing, and driving – which they oh so relevantly funded through a crowd-sourcing site. But, back to the parties – at one especially tricked out party Chaz announces to their group of friends that they are no longer actively attempting not to get pregnant. Channing doesn't seem too sold on the idea – but it's what you're supposed to do, right? While on their cross-country road trip de festival, Channing mulls over her life and her decision to, you guessed it: ruin it with babies.

Admittedly, my first impressions of and reason for watching this film was pretty far off base. I thought this was a foreign film and expected the quirky perspective and sly humor that goes along with it. Note, the minds behind this film are about as far from 'quirky foreign' as they can get – being not just Californians but from the ancillary town of angels, aka Los Angeles. It's okay though, just means the film was a bit dryer and a lot more hipsterly.

As a film, Let's Ruin it with Babies is entertaining but slow with most of the narrative being filler and the brunt of the story being possibly told in thirty minutes or less if Pantera was more succinct. The filler scenes are engaging and slightly add to the plot; but more often than not have no implication or integration with the bigger picture and conclusion of the film. It seems as though there was a general feel for the direction of the story but that most of the dialogue was improvised – as it was slow and unaffected and didn't feel deliberate.Further the camera work is shaky, with lots of hand-held work and not much steadicam shots, indicative of an independent film. If you are okay with all of those things and that specific visual style ideal then Let's Ruin it with Babies will be more of a hit for you.

Even though the film is called Let's Ruin it with Babies, there is still an open market for making a fun comedic movie about the socially constructed pressure put on burgeoning adults to take the next step and pursue procreation. Instead what you get is a story about a woman coming to terms with taking the next step as an adult, and yes, ruining it with babies.

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Title is a TRAP

[nive2-594-800148 · 1/10 · 3 January 2014]

I thought this movie would be different from the mainstream crap that is out there trying to convince people that having babies is bliss when it's a lot of hard work that costs a lot of money and not an obligation to society. But this is just another mainstream load of crap. Might as well have the Corporate, GOP, Catholic, Mormon baby-making stamp of approval on it. Don't waste your time. She doesn't want babies, she's happy with her life. She has an awesome life. But her stupid boyfriend wants a baby. Yeah we've all heard this story before, but in real life. "I don't really want any but he does so I'll have one just for him." Give me a break. Please. Then all of the sudden she's sitting on top of the world and she's hit the glass ceiling for happiness. Tah dah! Babies make you happy! It's crap. Pure drivel. Crap. (there's your ten lines IMDb)

A rare rom com about already-marrieds and the choice of parenthood

[andie-grace · 9/10 · 3 December 2013]

"Let's Ruin It With Babies" is the perfect title for this cheeky and sleek modern comedy from Kestrin Pantera, about a young woman with a perfect-looking hipster life -- a sweet husband, a cool house, great friends, and a kick ass career with a pop culture creative project (an all- comers-welcomed mobile karaoke RV) that's taking off on a great trajectory. It seems like she's got it all.

But while her husband is ready to drag her across the threshold into parenthood, she's not sure she's ready to go quietly; what follows is a road-movie/romantic comedy narrative that tests the connection between a likable young married couple as they work through their major life decision across the miles through a thick haze of karaoke and her road-trip party bus responsibilities.

The rich is cinematography a perfect complement to the ever-so-hip but entirely earnest lifestyle of its characters and their emotional immersion in their karaoke project. The fact that the RVIP Lounge is a real-life mobile karaoke RV that actually exists in the world, and that the fictional couple are its real-life proprietors who filmed the movie while on the road with said project, adds generously to its charm and their chemistry -- which makes the viewer all the more eager to see what will come of the couple's conundrum.

It's nice to see a romantic comedy that begins with a married couple already very much in love, and tackles a real and relevant issue for our culture, as more women face the parenthood vs. career decision and wait longer and longer to have children, or choose not to do it at all. If there is any criticism, it's that one might wish for more of the on board karaoke experience that the characters swear "changes peoples' lives!" but this is a minor squabble; for an indie it probably would have been cost prohibitive to actually license more pop music for such scenes, and in the end, the important thread is the lead character's connection to the view of the rest of her life. The end result is a very funny and emotionally aware film about the sometimes-conflicting realities of marriage and family.

Quirky debut

[nicole474 · 7/10 · 31 May 2014]

This is a fun debut film from Kestrin Pantera who has taken on aspects of her own life and the people she knows, and made them into a quirky film that looks at relationships, wants and needs within these structures, and how couples deal with the next issue after two people married: kids and well,...how to make a living while keeping your significant other happy. Refreshingly, the film examines gender roles in regards to children, and without being too heavy handed, sends some different messages about women's relationship with the issue of having children or not, all relevant topics for the modern world. The characters are fun, and the use of a Kickstarter campaign is a great eye catching way to get the viewer into the story. Enjoyable watch.

Great indie film. Worth a watch!

[CharlesMichaelWilliams · 8/10 · 21 January 2016]

I recently saw this film pop up on Amazon Prime and decided to give it a shot. While it isn't perfect, it is still a really nice indie film, and I really enjoyed it. The acting was quite solid and the storyline kept me interested throughout.

It terms of story and characters, I found both to be quite charming, and the film had the right amount of humor.

Like I said, the acting was solid. I particularly liked the girl who played Channing, however, the entire cast did well as an ensemble.

I look forward to seeing more from this director.

Give it a shot especially if you have a Prime account.

Loved this film

[davidusner · 9/10 · 19 January 2016]

So, where to start. This film was just a delightful surprise. I had no idea what to expect and was so happy I selected this film to watch. The acting was wonderful. Every one of the actors turned in a fabulous performance from top to bottom. As someone who teaches acting, I was struck by the truth of all of the characters.

And I loved the premise. It wasn't some simple road story. It was a carefully crafted story with some simple twists and turns. The dialogue was clean and concise, always driving toward the conclusion. I like that.

The little montages of editing that happened often in the film made me feel the warmth of the friendships. The editing was a high point for me.

Lastly, the RV was so much fun. As a Bay Area resident I wish I had seen this vehicle. I wonder if it had been to Burning Man.

I highly recommend this film. Congrats to the filmmaker.

A film that juxtaposes its relaxed attitudes with its characters'

[StevePulaski · 8/10 · 3 October 2014]

Let's Ruin it With Babies concerns the mid-thirties couple of Channing and Chaz (writer/director Kestrin Pantera and her real-life husband Jonathan Grubb, respectively), who still cling on to their dreams of making their career hauling a large party bus across the United States for passersby to join in on fun, random karaoke nights. This is the kind of ridiculous dream you have in college before growing up and hopefully accepting some cushy job, maybe attending to the idea once more when you're in the middle of a dire midlife crisis. Chaz, for one, recognizes this pipedream and decides not to join his loving wife on her cross-country trek to try and see if this karaoke bus is a feasible idea, much to her dismay. Chaz, in turn, proposes the idea of settling down and having children, ruining what contentment they have come to build for themselves.

Channing sets out on the road with a few other friends, aboard an enormous party-bus, decked out with food, decorations, and a karaoke machine. She realizes she's getting too old for this, and this dream should've stayed a disjointed barrage of notes on a cocktail napkin or as a text between her and her friend or husband. However, Channing doesn't want to recognize this; she's far too absorbed in herself, not like a narcissist, but more like someone's who most prominent concern is her current state of satisfaction. On the road, she encounters numerous locals, breaks down, melts down, and becomes faced with her greatest enemy, which I don't believe needs another mention.

Let's Ruin it With Babies is so laidback and sunny that's it's difficult to come up with valid points of criticism, or worse, be burdened by them as we watch nuanced conversation take place. There's a great deal of fun to be had, simply watching Channing interact with many different people on what would've been a more ordinary day if she simply decided to stay home and unwind rather than embark on a trip through the United States in an oversized RV bus. The film has the kind of quality that Jay Gammill's Free Samples did, where actress Jess Weixler took over for her friend, working an ice-cream truck in the middle of a parking lot where it seemed everyone else in the world was moving in the right direction accept her, figuratively and literally. Free Samples and Let's Ruin it With Babies both charm because they have attitudes as nonchalant and relaxed as their lead characters and operate by juxtaposing the attitudes, increasing in pace and in progression depending on the moods of their characters.

Some of the film's strongest scenes take place when the karaoke bus breaks down and a mechanic is called to evaluate and repair the bus. The mechanic, played by Patrick Daniel, ostensibly appears like the offbeat stranger who comes in at the nick of time before turning into a totally different character than we expect. Yes, the scene contradicts the relaxed mood of Let's Ruin it With Babies, but operates in a way that also contradicts Channing's view of life by showing her the more unexpected side of life that comes into play when one makes unexpected decisions with their own life. It's a hilarious, while simultaneously frightening, band of scenes, but thus is Let's Ruin it With Babies, and thus is life.

Starring: Kestrin Pantera and Jonathan Grubb. Directed by: Kestrin Pantera.

Makes you feel young again, like the world is your oyster and the road your best friend!

[abby-42 · 9/10 · 26 January 2016]

There comes a time in everyone's life where you come to a fork in the road... will you keep doing the same thing that makes you incredibly happy, or will you take a risk to do something else that might make you even happier? Channing and her husband Chaz, played believably by the film's director, Kestrin Pantera, and her real-life husband, Jonathan Grubb, have a pretty rockin' relationship. They truly love and respect each other and manage to make each day full of fun and creative vision (and rockstar partying). So, yeah, why eff up the perfect life with having babies that keep you up all night and day and seriously change your whole dynamic? The journey of maturity from awesome, kid-free hipsters to even-awesomer, hipster parents is a very fun and sweet story that made me so happy to watch. If you ever dreamed about having a life in which your friends are the coolest, most creative and fun people you know, then you will fall in love with this movie and all the characters in it. The lush, beautiful cinematography is a standout for an indie. And the film's lead actress (and director) Kestrin Pantera is clearly a creative force. I hope to see more of her both in front of the camera and behind the lens. Bravo!

Rollicking Road Trip Really Fun!

[tobyhubner · 9/10 · 16 February 2016]

Kestrin Pantera the writer/director and ALSO the lead actress is front and center in this quirky indie romantic comedy/road trip and she is really entertaining, kind of twist on Parker Posey so she's got a lot of irony that plays well and plausibly with her real life husband, who's a perfect dead pan foil to her live spark, I just got into these two characters and their hijinks on this rolling RVIP karaoke bus, they should turn it into a mock doc reality series to tell you the truth with all the menagerie of crazy characters they meet, kind of The Office meets...Community? Sorry if I'm reaching with false references but this is an inspired piece of original work by two gutsy indy filmmakers doing it all themselves, its exactly what you want in an indy film...the emotion and originality is all there and has its own power, notwithstanding the budget...why can't you find these type of films on airplanes? Answer..;they're crowded out by studio product but I love watching films on airplanes I admit it and I would have loved to have found this on my recent transatlantic flight...really worth a watch...

Authentic and heartwarming

[Ifitmovesyou · 10/10 · 30 January 2016]

This is a authentic & heartwarming film that sheds some much needed light on one of the many gray areas in life. The one where you're finally stable enough to fathom spawning but also finally fulfilled enough to enjoy the fruits of your life long labor (to this point) and celebrate without having to be responsible for human life... But the clock is ticking. Falling in love is the easy part and I think we've all seen enough movies about that. Charming and honest, this film is packed with obviously funny moments as well as subtle "chuckle to yourself" relatable moments that connect you to all of the characters in one way or another.. It's basically an adventure to babyland that doesn't hold back from addressing the real bummers we all face along the way, and manages to make them all seem less heavy through the ever refreshing "I've totally been there" moments. Regardless of if you have kids or not, I recommend checking this film out - it's a pleasure to watch and simply uplifting without being cheesy or sensationalized.