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8/10
If you haven't been to Japan...
barrymahonb12 November 2019
...you will not understand how 'real' this film is. It may appear banal or even boring if you don't appreciate how sensitive the Japanese are. For a society and culture as creative as Japan, the idea you would like to have someone who could 'fill in the gaps' in your life is quite possible. Werner Herzog was apparently influenced by an article in the NYT. I haven't read the article but I will try to find it, it is probably as interesting as the film. Wonderful images and roles.

BTW, if you haven't visited Japan, put it on you list of things to do, if possible.
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7/10
Original & Unique...
Xstal23 July 2020
An interpretation of the deceptive world we increasingly inhabit, as an agency provides surrogates for just about anything you fancy. Performed as a convincing faux documentary in Japan - robots next. Imagine how deplorable and low the human race will be able to sink then and you'll never be arrested.
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7/10
An interesting drama.
tamsin-parker-262-5389258 October 2019
The film is a bit slow in places and there are some boring bits, but the concept itself is interesting. A man has an company who rents substitutes for fathers, businessmen, etc. He begins forming a relationship with the daughter of a wealthy, Yuri Kagami-esque woman who is a divorced widow, by pretending to be her father. Unfortunately it goes against his own company policy. Will he tell Mahiro the truth or become her actual father? The last few minutes of the film are the best. There's a little bit of insight into Japanese racism, as Mahiro befriends a little girl for having dark skin.

The photography is beautiful. The vistas of Tokyo are stunning. It's definitely worth watching.
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6/10
Interesting story but hard to watch
mdimba18 July 2020
I wanted to like this movie. The story is great and asks some serious questions about how we "act" in our everyday lives. However, the movie is quite hard to watch with many incredibly awkward scenes. It also looks a bit homevideo-y and the script is a quite thin.
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6/10
Japan's culture is still very strange to us.
philip-davies313 July 2020
Surely that utterly dishonest Japanese substitution and impersonation of real persons in real situations is just weird, and wrong? Confusing psychodrama and reality as if there is no difference says something disturbing about the Japanese sense of self. Any Westerner would find such a practice a disturbing and offensive intrusion into and offensive parody of their personal integrity.

In the West we can accept role-playing dramas, which often have satisfying or even cathartic effects, because the illusion is a temporary imaginary leap, and the experience an exercise in self-analysis and mindfulness. Lessons are drawn which can be applied back in one's real life, having been a recreation that strengthens our emotional life, just as physical exercise strengthens our body. Well-written dramas can also impart this kind of creative refreshment. But the Japanese acceptance of play-acting as essentially indistinguishable from actuality, and as having the identical moral standing of authentic behaviour, is surely a dangerous category confusion? This seems to be exposed as the film shows the difficulty the man finds in posing convincingly as the father of a young child while at the same time keeping his emotional distance - as it is stipulated he must as a condition of his employment. One thinks in the West of those unpleasant consequences where undercover security operations have led to the betrayal of the emotions and the lives of partners whom agents have fallen in love with, even married and had children by, in the guise of an entirely false persona. Court cases have tended to follow.

One can speculate that this disturbing insincerity, which can so easily turn into real but still cheating feelings, is only tolerable in a society and culture that within living memory was still highly formalised according to strict traditional imperatives, that dictated not only the physical but also, to an extreme degree, the interior life of the people. This deprived thought and action of any moral component, producing a culture - as is well known - of shame, instead of guilt; of dissimulation, not confession.

A society that recently valued only mere correct appearance remains vulnerable to such imposture, treating what we would deem impostors and deceivers exactly like authentic persons. If the Japanese still lack, to some degree, the moral centre to distinguish between mere artifice and psychological integrity, then their obsession with automata as acceptable simulacra of human beings, even without application of any Turing test to demonstrate actual sentience, is indicative.

I don't say the Japanese have no modern sensibility, of course. After the terrible debacle, in the Second World War, of their unique traditional world-view, they have finally entered the moral universe. However, it seems they do retain a residual psychological tendency that remains susceptible to mere appearances. This has led them seriously astray (I suggest) in the current practice, as it is shown by this interesting Herzog film, 'Family Romance.'
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6/10
Different version of Truman Show
kaanyetis-399822 August 2020
Don't know what to say about this movie. Indeed, I don't really know whether can I say a "movie" for this. It is more like to be a documentary. I really hesitated throughout the movie if it is worth it to see but at the end I didn't regret. However, I really dissapointed when I see what the director created, because I knew the pilot before watching it and my expectations were very high. I didn't like the style of the movie. Maybe it is just because I am not familiar with it. It was like a different version of Truman Show. Lots of questions came out to my mind at the end. What if everything we have is a lie? What if my mother is not my mother at all? It sounds scary.
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7/10
Something To Adopt Here!
ASuiGeneris29 February 2024
"Family Romance is admirable. I think it's an incredible company. You create illusions to make life of your clients better. That should make you feel good. That's really praiseworthy, isn't it?"

"At Family Romance, we are not allowed to love or to be loved. So, I need to be more careful... this time, you should rent a death."

Google will tell you more regarding "Family Rental Service".

A most fascinating and thought provoking business model that I highly recommend we adopt in this country. I would love to work for a family rental service. The closest thing we have to it here is those third party matching websites like rent a friend and rent a date. Not quite the same thing as making a career out of an admirable business the way they show here.

Docudrama style but fictional, making it almost a mockumentary but not quite? Little slow in parts, compensated by beautiful cinematography, almost like a mini travelogue.
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9/10
Herzog strikes again
pecci-andrea20 June 2019
I'm gonna be brief here: everyone could have done a documentary about this topic. We're talking about a japanese agency specialized in renting substitutes for dead family members! Herzog gives us coordinates and help us to ask the right questions to understand our apparently weird world. What is the role of the illusion? What connection does it have with the robotics and cinema? Is it totally evil? There's no judgment in the director's eye. Only representation, critical look and, of course, illusion.
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3/10
shallow exotica
LunarPoise9 August 2020
Herzog goes full Orientalist in this dismal, stilted look at an obscure element of Japanese society. The first thing to know about renting out people to impersonate family members is that the concept is as bizarre and alien to the vast majority of Japanese as it is to Westerners. This story doesn't say anything about "the Japanese" or "Japanese society." It does say a lot about Western filmmakers and audiences who want to represent Japan as some exotic and unfathomable 'other.'

Ishii Yuichi is CEO of Family Romance, a company that loans out amateur actors to play family members. For example, a young woman is having her wedding but cannot invite her alcoholic father for fear that he will wreck the event. Instead, she turns to Family Romance and hires a man to play Dad and help her save face.

This story strand is plausible, and the idea of family roles as performative is certainly one rich with potential. The Japanese refer to their spouses as 'Mama' and 'Papa' even when the children aren't around, so the Japanese aspect of family role as performance is one worth highlighting. Herzog, however, isn't interested in that, and instead sacrifices story in order to shoe-horn into the frame everything weird and artificial he finds on his Japanese sojourn. Robot receptionists in a hotel? Let's accommodate them in a bizarre tangent to the story. Young people practicing samurai swordplay in a park? Let's have our main characters stare at them for an interminably long time. An actual oracle? We can shove our main character on a train to go and meet her for no narrative reason at all. A train employee employing someone else to apologize to his boss on a public platform? Hell, it would never happen, but let's shoot such a scene anyway because my lead prostrating himself on the platform looks so cool and weird.

If you have Japanese friends, ask them if they have hired someone to play a family member, or checked into a hotel staffed by robots, or been to a hedgehog cafe, or kept a robot fish in a fish tank, or traveled half the country to talk to an oracle. Or maybe don't ask them, if you want to stay friends.

Decorating your frame with Japan and the Japanese simply as 'exotic other' is bad enough, but Herzog also casts the actual CEO of Family Romance as his lead. Ishii Yuichi can't act. The poor amateur is out of his depth and his improvisation is just cringe-worthy. He has one facial expression the whole movie - tense. Herzog says he did not need translation as he could sense when a moment was 'authentic.' Sorry Werner, but you really couldn't.

It seems the other actors came from Ishii's company, which explains why they are just as wooden. The mother of Mahiro, the young girl who Ishii pretends to be a father to, is one-note. Only Mahiro looks to have any depth and complexity. Herzog's process seems to have been to make up the scenes on the hoof, then get the actors to improvise on location. The sets are bare and look like show-rooms rather than lived in spaces, and characters sit at awkward angles to each other to accommodate the straight-on camera. There is no thought for framing or composition. The whole effect is one of a glorified home video.

The final shot, a child in blur against frosted glass, is an apt closure to the thematic concern. So three stars for that shot, but three stars is generous, given the blithe disregard for the society and culture depicted.
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9/10
An awkward and tense reflection on humanity and its commodification
asfandyarace24 December 2020
An opportunity to witness Herzog's perfectly refined, and yet somewhat awkward style. Whilst the movie isn't riveting in a classical sense, the slow and constant rhythm draws us in.

There is a constant, permeating tension throughout the movie between reality and imitation. I found myself questioning this paradigm on two levels: To what extent is this movie a documentary? To what extent do the characters realistically portray family members?

As for the first question, the lines are extremely blurry. A family renting industry is known to exist, and Yuichi Ishii (the actor) is known to be the founder of one such company. Ishii claims the relationships throughout the movie are based on reality, but the New Yorker claims him to be unreliable. Nevertheless, the question itself is important and creates an uneasy tension as it plays and forth in our heads.

Ishii is clearly the standout in a cast of amateur actors. His performance is sensitive, realistic and almost paradoxically satirical (at times). He carries the story through to an emotional climax that poses yet more questions.

Herzog consistently uses complex metaphors and strong symbolism and a lot of the spiritual discourse of the movie can be found outside its dialogue (perhaps the result of Herzog directing in a second language).

In conclusion, give it a watch. It's a beautiful introduction to Herzog and will leave you with more questions posed than answered.
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5/10
Quite the chore to sit through
Sir_AmirSyarif6 July 2020
Werner Herzog explores the strange business of rented relatives in 'Family Romance, LLC' - a guerrilla-filmed Japanese drama about relationships, emotions, and the artificiality of it all. Fascinating ideas, but the poor scripting, stilted performances, and bad camerawork make the movie quite the chore to sit through.
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8/10
A film about sweat lies
mkavous16 July 2022
Warning: Spoilers
A film that looks like a documentary that how we would like to lie to ourselves.

It is so well set that you may don't feel it is a feature.

Done on a 4K professional camera to get more closer to reality.
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8/10
The existential solitude of modern man
b_velkova29 November 2021
The Wind Phone is a phone booth in Japan which people use to hold conversations with their loved ones lost in the tsunami of 2011. Here Herzog puts a woman on a cliff facing the ocean and gives her a receiver. "Did you speak with someone dead?, they ask her after she hangs up. "No. I tried instead to reach someone alive", she answers and you immediately recognize your communication with the living is as one-way as this. The existential solitude of modern man is on focus in this fine drama telling the invented story of a very real company called Family Romance which rents out actors to fill the gaps in our interpersonal relations.
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10/10
The Best Film I've Seen This Year Yet
esteban_espejel14 July 2020
Herzog never disappoints me and with FAMILY ROMANCE, LLC. i felt happy, moved and sad. I really felt them as real people and not actors. I think most movies needs this, this essence, this breath.

I miss so much the characters now that the movie is over. I really want to watch it again. It's easily one of my favorite movies i've seen in all my life and i hugely recommend it.

If you can get to watch HERZOG commentary about the film, do it. His words are pure wisdom. Teach you about Life and his advices are worth listening.
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10/10
I've never seen such a new and forgetting movie
chocolateball20 October 2019
I watched it at the Cannes Film Festival in May. The family romance Yuichi Ishii, the main character doing mysterious work as a rental family, and a girl who thinks that family romance Yuichi Ishii is a real father, various requests jump into the family romance Yuichi Ishii story. The story of the family romance Yuichi Ishii who is tired of playing someone made the story interesting. Minor actor? I don't know, but I was impressed with the natural performance that I didn't decorate, matching the violin music and atmosphere of the movie.
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8/10
Hire me to say I'm sorry instead of you
sanda_moroianu6 April 2021
It's been a while since I haven't heard about Werner Herzog. And now, this. Do Japanese people hire fake fathers or other friends? I wouldn't know. Do they travel long distances to consult with an oracle woman? I wouldn't know either. Is there an emergent industry of pretending you're dead, in order to see what it's like? How could I know? Are robots likely to take over from humans in ways we can't fathom yet? For sure. Can we pretend to fight without weapons? Absolutely. Do we need to save face in various situations? You can bet on it. Would we hire someone to take the blame and prosternate to the boss's feet instead of us? Don't answer no; you'd be lying. Stark interiors, formal attitudes, rigid dialogues- and a world of turmoil within. Is it reality? Is it a nearing, ominous future? Is it Japan? Is it not? Who cares, it's a good film. Who would have thought in 2019 that we would be quarantined globally in 2021? And yes, somewhere in south-east Asia I witnessed a situation in which two young men fell on their knees in front of an older guy- presumably their employer- and showed their deepest remorse and practically kissed his feet in public; they didn't stand up before the man touched their shoulders. Not a scene for European eyes.
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8/10
live an illusion
perezramoscine31 August 2022
Warning: Spoilers
All things and people appear in disguise What are the limits between fiction and reality?

Herzog analyzes loneliness in the 21st century. How to fill that void or accept the inherent loneliness of existence.

The film opens when Yuichi Ishii, the real owner of this company, approaches Mahiro, a shy and silent 12-year-old girl, in Yoyogi Park, full of walkers, young people and tourists. Ishii tells her that he is her father, and that he left her after their divorce, since he has started another family. None of this is true, as Ishii has been hired by Mahiro's mother, to create the illusion that her father has not forgotten her, and has searched for her. The encounters happen frequently, both empathize and have fun together in moving scenes. Mahiro is gaining confidence, he becomes fond of who he thinks his father is, he makes confessions typical of a teenager, without realizing that for Ishii, she is simply the daughter of the client who has hired him.

Available on MUBI.
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