I am loving this show. It's far less catty than I was expecting based off of what people are saying in reviews. It's way less catty than The Real Housewives franchise. There is a guy on the show that is dealing with coming out and fully accepting who he is. I find those parts heart wrenching and I feel for him so much. I am unfamiliar with why people hate Toddrick Hall. I'll be sure to Google that soon, but on this show I like him. It seems like this show has a lot of baggage with the public and do people aren't actually watching it before reviewing it. If you have no preconceived ideas about this show, I think it would be entertaining.