I see the side where she was a kid lured and groomed into this relationship, but I also see her as a homewrecker. Has she ever apologized for that? I just don't see most of this story as a predator was after her and she's a victim. After she was 18 she pursued him for years. She ignored any sign he might have been luring other girls-because that would mean she wasn't special. Just one of many girls. Regret is not the same thing as being a victim. Take accountability for your actions above all else. This isn't victim shaming. It's complicated because she chose to have a relationship with him when she was an adult. Her story is not like the other young women featured.