The parents say they are baffled why their son is estranged. Really? You don't respect his marriage and you are baffled why he is not respecting you? Come on.
It is easy.
He is an adult now, you don't have to like his wife, but you have to respect their marriage if you want a relationship.
It is easy.
He is an adult now, you don't have to like his wife, but you have to respect their marriage if you want a relationship.