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5/10
Touching, but very flawed.
Davalon-Davalon23 August 2022
Warning: Spoilers
Despite this movie's charms, and there are many, I found it ultimately troublesome.

We are asked to believe that "Claude" (Bruce Dern, in another of his extremely appealing "grumpy old men" roles that echo his performance in "Nebraska"), now somewhere in his 80s, a "theater critic" (I didn't believe this for five seconds) and a widower, with an adult daughter "Selma" (Sienna Guillory) in a troubled marriage, and a granddaughter "Tania" (Serena Kennedy), goes to his editor's office to discuss some article he wrote (or wants to write). The editor, in a long, convoluted scene, explains why Claude's current article can't be printed in the newspaper, but it can be published in a digital version of the newspaper.

An assistant shows him what the digital version looks like as if Claude had never seen or imagined such a thing. (I'm sorry, but even if the man is in his 80s, he has been around technology for the last 40 years and he'd most likely have an iPad; in fact, he has an iPhone which he knows how to use quite well.)

While the assistant scrolls through the digital pages, an image flashes before Claude's eyes: "Lilian" (Caroline Silhol, in an arresting, but slightly stilted performance). It seems that Lilian was a beautiful French actress that Claude fell in love with years ago. But Lilian was married and finally she had to break things off with Claude and, I guess, Claude then married another woman (never referred to by name, never with any indication of her image or the life she lived or the importance she may have had in Claude's life) and they had "Selma."

Claude learns that Lilian is (conveniently) living in a nearby retirement community and that she has Alzheimer's. Claude, with the help of his reluctant buddy "Shane" (Brian Cox, who might be the best actor in the film), decides he will feign Alzheimer's so he can live at the retirement community and coax Lilian back to a lucid state, using her favorite flowers, favorite song and an amateur production of a play where she gave her greatest performance. He does this by assuring Shane that Lilian's husband is dead. This is the only way that Shane will help him.

But, surprise: Lilian's husband "David" (Ben Temple) is not dead and he checks in on her on occasion. But by this point Claude is ensconced in the retirement community (after lying to his daughter, and then, later found out by his granddaughter) and working his "magic" on Lilian.

Shane is furious at Claude for lying to him about Lilian being a widow. Claude verbally attacks him, shouting that the husband "never loved" Lilian and "doesn't care" about her like he does.

This is when the movie fell totally apart for me. If Claude was so invested in his old love affair with Lilian, why didn't he keep tabs on her? Also, if he had married, had a child and what amounts to a full life, and wasn't in touch with Lilian for decades, how could he possibly know that the husband "never loved" Lilian? It was completely unbelievable and made me hate everything that came prior to that point.

The movie plays out predictably, with Lilian's memory of her greatest performance rushing back to her, to the point she usurps the amateur production and gets up on stage and recites her lines as if she had just spoken them the day before. She then remembers Claude, and they have their big moment where he inexplicably kisses her on her nose, not her lips.

Later they "disappear," and the staff rushes around and discovers them dancing to "Embraceable You." Yes, it's sweet, it's touching, it's charming, and Lilian's huge, expressive eyes will touch the heart of anyone who isn't dead inside.

But the whole time I couldn't stop thinking: Okay, Claude, you had a life with someone. We never hear her name or see her picture, even though she was the mother of your child. So, did you stay with her for 30 years because that was your best option? And... did you just assume that Lilian's "burning love" for you survived decades and that she didn't have anyone in her life that loved her?

On a fantasy level, this movie had a certain element of charm. But in reality, I don't see that it could have happened.

Also, there were many staff members working at the retirement community. Almost all of them were people of color. This may, in fact, be the most real element of this film. That said, early on in the film, a beautiful Black woman who works at the community introduces herself to Claude as "Zephyr." Okay, great name, but then she disappears for the rest of the film, never to be seen again. Why this was an important moment that had to be in the movie, I don't know, but somehow the director/producer felt it was essential.

I'm thrilled to see older actors get opportunities, but I wish they didn't have to be associated with Alzheimer's, retirement homes, and diaper jokes.
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7/10
Feel good movie
ape-081361 June 2021
I thought I was a hopeless romantic but I don't hold a candle to this dude. Funny and sad no doubt he loves Lilly.
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2/10
Remember Me..... not likely!!!
sony-008965 August 2021
I decided to watch this following a review on here stating it's better than 'The Notebook' (a film that I thoroughly enjoyed). Unfortunately it's not a patch on The Notebook!!! Not even close!!! ......Remember Me was flat and lackluster and just didn't move me at all (and I'm someone who cries at the drop of a hat!!!). I was bored about 20 minutes in but gave it the benefit of the doubt and continued to watch in the hope it would get better. It didn't!!! I totally wasted 1½ hours of my time.

If you want to watch a film that heartily incorporates love, nostalgia and Alzheimer's into its storyline; look no further than The Notebook - visually beautiful, great direction and delivered by good actors. In fact, I wish I had watched that again instead of this copycat nonsense.
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8/10
Emotional Funny and so real
bp37176 May 2020
Beautiful written directed movie. So real on this disease that touches each and everyone in one way or other. Human connection!!
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9/10
Enjoyed the watch
charlikenya22 January 2021
An enjoyable watch. Fun performances by Brian Cox and Caroline Sihol. A delightful look at love and it's power over time. Should have ended early... but still worth the watch!
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9/10
Great movie!
Johnmkennedy1223 January 2021
It was a thoroughly enjoyable experience to watch two masters of their craft, Bruce Dern and Brian Cox take us on a journey revolving around that age-old idiom, 'There is life in the old dog yet.' Their chemistry is magical, and their scene work had me laughing out loud. Of course, that is in part to a beautiful screenplay and a talented director's masterful hand. Special mentions to Sienna Guillory who stole scenes and Caroline Silhol, who brought me to tears through her carefully crafted and poignant interpretation of her character's plight. Whimsically: the story reminded me of the Dylan Thomas prose, 'Rage, rage against the dying of the light.' The reason being a majority of the characters start in their last chapters, but life will give you the next chapter if you're willing to find a reason to fight for it. An excellent film for any age but one to watch with your elders; it may be an inspiration to them.
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9/10
Profound, beautifully done
drummerboy-3506016 February 2021
Incredibly profound film. Character development was smooth, mini laugh out loud moments yet very touching and deep romantic love story. Encompasses the feelings of nostalgia and aging in a light heartfelt manner. Atit Shah produced such a wonderful son. Highly recommend this to anyone interested in any lovely romantic comedy about the struggles and loneliness that you deal with as you age. Well done to the cast crew and everyone involved in this fantastic film. Highly recommend!
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10/10
You gotta watch it!
pratikstudio3 August 2019
An Interesting story & journey, great teamwork by everyone part of the film, a must watch!
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10/10
Amazing movie!
gonzalobouza6 August 2019
I really loved the story and how it has been directed. The cast shines, Sir Bruce Dern´s performance is from another galaxy. A must watch! I cried and laughed equally.
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10/10
A must watch for the whole family
yunxes25 January 2021
This is a beautiful and very powerful movie that everyone needs to watch. It shows how Alzheimer's can affect a person and a family at the same time as it talks about a strong love. Please do yourself a favor and watch it!
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10/10
Beautiful Performances
ryanrk15026 January 2021
Loved this film. Bruce Dern and Brian Cox have amazing chemistry, but Caroline Silhol steals the show. Beautiful ending, and personal to any of us who have had loved ones with Alzheimer's.
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10/10
All for love
info-195198 August 2019
Great movie directed by Martin Rosete (Money, Voice Over) with an amazing cast (Bruce Dern, Sienna Guillory, Brian Cox...). Highly recommended!!!!!
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10/10
Absolutely LOVED!
tryitwithtati28 March 2021
Highly recommended, beautifully written story line. Definitely a tearjerker, better than The Notebook.
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10/10
Heartwarming, an amazing love story.
abiperl1 February 2021
Such a great story about love and the lengths one will go to be with the person they love
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