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Lucy Punch, David Tennant, and Faye Marsay in You, Me and Him (2017)

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You, Me and Him

26 reviews
7/10

Loved it and Annoyed by it

Simply loved so many aspects of this movie. David Tennant, Faye Marsay, and Sarah Parish were nothing less than brilliant; you couldn't take your eyes off them when they were on screen. Add to that the genuinely true-to-life moments of humor and deep pain - the reasons that we go to the movies in the first place - and the result is a sharing of the human condition and seeing what connects even the most different of us. The reasons to love this movie.

Then there are the reasons that this fils is so annoying...While Lucy Punch was competent as the solid core of the film, her complete lack of chemistry with Marsay held the film back from truly shining. Add to that a script that had a pair of contrived moments for every brilliant one and enough f-bombs to prove the lack of dialog inspiration and the foundation for the movie to be annoying were firm laid.

Daisy Aitkins direction was alternately spot-on and muddled, but the wonderful moments were enough to make me want to see her next project. Oh...and seeing Georgia, Olivia, and Wilfred Tennant make ridiculously blonde, beautiful, and hilarious cameos were a nice perk too.
  • GunnersMate
  • Mar 6, 2018
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6/10

Aw, come ON! (Just maybe spoilers)

  • confred-52577
  • Aug 18, 2019
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5/10

It's not funny, but it's an ok watch.

First of all, the ten star reviews, were they written by cast members? No way on this Earth is this a perfect movie.

Pluses, the cast. Marsay and Punch are both pretty good, they manage to lift the script somewhat because they are both damn fine actresses. The mouse is cute.

Negatives, just about everything else. It's a hideous script, some of the lines are cringe worthy.

Question, has David Tennant ever looked more incredibly sexy than he does here? Oh my god the man is glorious, I am slightly surprised he agreed to do this.

Decent, 5/10.
  • Sleepin_Dragon
  • Oct 22, 2020
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6/10

Heart warming comedy

I was fortunate to watch "You, Me and Him" at a screening this week and must say it was a delightful British comedy with a much more current twist on the usual rom-com. A stellar cast that made me laugh out loud, but also shed a tear. Go and see it, highly recommended.
  • fabio-vollono-606-318898
  • Mar 30, 2018
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Highly original feature debut!

What could possibly go wrong when you combine a gay couple (one a career driven lawyer - Lucy Punch, the other a pot-smoking, fun loving layabout - Faye Marsay ) and throw in their neighbour, an annoying bearded Casanova (David Tennant)? Answer - quite a lot.

I really enjoyed this inventive funny debut feature by writer/director Daisy Aitkens. Well worth checking out!!
  • mmclennan-92918
  • Jan 21, 2018
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3/10

Overall incredibly disappointed

I was very excited to see this as I am a big fan of David Tennant, but sadly this film left me with a sinking feeling by the time it was over.

The good: I am amazed they were able to make this film with a budget of under $160,000. That is incredible and I give the filmmakers huge kudos for that. There were also several good to great performances. Faye Marsay was wonderful, as were David Tennant and Sarah Parrish. And I even laughed once or twice.

The bad: The writing was not good. It doesn't matter how top notch the talent is, the writing dragged them down. There were moments that were just so ridiculous (and not in a good way) that my suspension of disbelief was compromised and I just kept repeating: this is awful, who thought this was a good idea, etc.

Another big problem I had was that there was very little chemistry between the two main characters (supposedly lesbians in a loving relationship). We don't see much evidence of this at all (it was more being told something vs being shown something). The women hardly touched, hardly kissed, and most of the time didn't seem like they even liked each other. For a romantic comedy, there was not a lot of romance. Instead we start the film at two truly horrible decisions being made that should make any sane person turn tail and run from such dysfunction. Most of the film has the two people not even talking let alone trying to fix their relationship. By the end of the film there is a voiceover sort of giving a recap and it's not clear whether the two are even together. I don't consider it a successful romcom if you can't see whether two people are together, but need to wait until you are told whether they are or aren't. Again, I blame the writing and directing choices.

I debated whether or not to include a spoiler, and I won't. BUT there is an event that happens in the film that made me so angry to have watched it, because I thought I was going to be watching an edgy though fun and light hearted romcom. It was traumatic and heartbreaking and not implied in any official chatter around the film. I almost stopped watching right then and there. This film is being sold as a rom-com, but people should know going into it that it is in no way fun or light hearted.
  • lilven
  • Jan 3, 2018
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7/10

It's not bad honestly

Looking through the reviews, so many people pulled this movie down, but it really wasn't that bad at all. Yes, it's a little clishé (or a lot...), and it's not a world-changing movie, but it is a fun watch!

Negatives: My biggest issue was (as someone else also mentioned) the lack of chemistry between the two main characters. You could blame it on the actors, but I also think Alex and Olivia just didn't get enough sweet moments in the beginning to solidify their love for the viewer. It also uses a lot of stereotypes, that can be offputting to some. I also can't really comment on how accurate this is, as I am not a lesbian and never had a baby.

Positives: The overall acting is very good, I especially loved David Tennant (he was actually the reason I started watching this in the first place). I swear he can just make any character work. I also liked the character arcs in the story, and how much everyone improved by the end. The story/plot was good too, and I think the technical aspects of it were nice as well. And despite the mentioned lack of chemistry between the main pair, I still enjoyed the ending very much, it was sweet.

So, overall an alright movie, good if you just want something fun and easy to watch. I liked it, but probably won't go back to rewatch it tho.
  • aqualetti
  • May 22, 2024
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4/10

You, Me, and Him - Review

  • emmaziff
  • Jun 5, 2018
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5/10

Well intentioned but IMO disappointing. Possible part spoiler

  • oz_rain_walker
  • Jul 1, 2018
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10/10

A movie with wit, charm and honesty

I loved it! Absolutely fabulous!

I mean I finished the film thrilled (and dabbing my eyes) because it was way better than my expectations. I think it's one of the best romantic comedies that I've seen in a long time. It's so funny yet so sad, just like life! It's so good to watch something that feels raw and honest and yet still makes you giggle. There was so much vulnerability to the script. This is where cinema should go.

I'm so glad that it was made in the UK because the US would have drowned out so much of the sincerity. The film was so, so good. I connected with every character and fell in love with them all. I was there and felt the pain, happiness, and love.

It's fantastic to see a lesbian relationship not treated with sugar-coated, kid gloves, but like a real, living and breathing human relationship - and all the crap that comes with that. Olivia and Alex have terrific chemistry which is undeniable. David Tennant needs to do more comedy.

I laughed, I cried... it moved me! Ten stars!
  • o_jones-36395
  • Jan 14, 2018
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4/10

Very forgettable.

Faye Marsay stole the show in here, a not-so-feel-god comedy drama that will most likely go unnoticed by most. It has some strengths in funny moments but it's definitely not enough.

Enjoyment: 4/10 Relevance: 2/10 Acting: 3/10 Script: 3/10

Final grade: 4/10
  • d-garutti
  • Dec 31, 2017
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Unadulterated Tripe!

David, David, David - do you not read scripts before you agree to appear in childish panto? The only redeeming contribution to this pile of excrement is the casting director - she / him must have a touch of genius to attract good character actors to sign up to a life un-enhancing period of agony before the camera, the faster this is buried and Ms Aitkens gets back to her media studies degree the better.
  • john-36232
  • Feb 23, 2018
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1/10

Couldn't get passed 20 minutes

Honestly thought this was dreadful, infantile crap. I really wonder how this got funding. Embarrassing.
  • spamade
  • Jun 29, 2019
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1/10

Poor

I did not get my hopes up for this film and it was still below my expectations. The plot line was extremely poor and the acting was ridiculously bad! Some scenes in this film added little to nothing to the over all story and that gave it a tacky feel! As someone who is part of the LGBT community, this film showed Lesbians in a bad way, almost suggesting that lesbian couples are dependent on a man in one way or another! David Tennant's character was the worst

I do not and will not be recommending this film!
  • gemmamcdermott
  • Jul 4, 2019
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1/10

What was the point?

There's no chemistry from the start between the "couple" and it all goes down hill from there. It definitely isn't a comedy either, more a tragedy. Can't believe such talented actors would have somehow consented to be in this mess.
  • felicityburrows-flower
  • Aug 3, 2019
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10/10

Funny, charming and witty new Brit rom com

No spoilers here. This is just the best fun ever. Well done Showtime for snapping it up. Written and helmed by Daisy Aitkens it does what it's supposed to; makes 'em laugh, makes 'em cry. But mainly laugh. With a rumoured budget of only $3million God knows how they managed it. I guess if you get the script right the good actors will follow and the young Brit pack guys seem to have piled in here. David Tenant, Lucy Punch and Fay Marsay headline an excellent cast aided and abetted by the usual gang of oh so polished and subtle UK character actors that we expect in these Downton days. It is about two women, a couple couple, who despite being total opposites, go together as comfortably as yin and yang symbols. One is the business woman with her sharp suits and mind, the other an anguished artist with seemingly permanent artists block. Their warmth, vulnerability and loving humor gives the movie its whole feelgood thing. Then they get pregnant at the same time. And there is the third side to the triangle in the form of David Tenant who goes into a hilarious new high gear as the neighbour from one of the outer suburbs of hell. But no more. Go see, have a great laugh and take a tissue.... For the tears thank you people!
  • bluerinse-94708
  • Jan 8, 2018
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2/10

Awful

  • sapperdiosio
  • Aug 24, 2018
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3/10

Not funny

I don't believe any of the ppl in the movie are comedy actors and it shows, along with an unfunny script and story. Give it a miss. Performances were very flat, no chemistry between the characters and I am not sure if any of the leads are Gay in real life but they sure didn't come across as a believable couple. Tenant did his best and for that I give the 3 stars.
  • phignett@hotmail.com
  • Aug 27, 2020
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3/10

One dimensional characters and tone deaf tackling of important issues

  • knightseclectic
  • Oct 3, 2020
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2/10

An honest review of You, Me and Him.

  • wundergurl
  • Nov 12, 2022
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10/10

A comedy that will make you both laugh and cry

  • lameconi
  • Dec 31, 2017
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5/10

Glossy, somewhat entertaining, and quite forgettable

  • bsw03
  • May 5, 2021
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1/10

It's really bad.

Id struggle to find another film I've seen that's so bad.

There are some good actors in it, let down by some incredibly wooden actors I've never heard of, like the female lead. She gives "same character in all roles" vibes.

The two lead females are entirely unbelievable as a same sex couple.

It's not funny, like at all and the writing is weird. It's almost like it was written for an American cast and audience but for unknown reasons someone said "let's do it British" and it doesn't work.

Right off the bat shes walking through a little market town narrating about labels groups of people fall into when she clocks a group of about 5 "bankers".

.... In a small town?? Bankers hanging out in large groups in generic middle England?

It's all wrong and painfully unfunny.

I only persisted somewhat because David Tenant was in it but I had to stop.

It was just too bad.
  • wonky_donkey-75122
  • Mar 5, 2024
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10/10

Laugh out loud funny, with a tinge of tears

This is a great film. Great cast, great (unexpected) storyline, in the vain of Bridget Jones / Love Actually.

Fast paced, witty and funny, but with thoughtful twists and heart wrenching turns, this is a film that will become a classic in the 'Great British Gems' genre...it will be shown every year at Xmas and everyone will watch it over and again.

A slow burner that will become one of the great LGBT films in time.
  • timpenhale-jones
  • Feb 26, 2018
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10/10

Good

I really enjoyed this film. A light hearted comedy was just what I needed at the end of a busy day
  • mrscefai
  • Mar 14, 2018
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