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(2012 TV Movie)

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7/10
hits home about how bullying can spiral out of control
VikingStorm5 January 2013
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Having just watched this film now, under the title of 'Shattered Silence' which is a better title than the main, I find the film itself compelling and there is a strong underlying story to the overall plot.

The cover up and denial are rife when it comes to bullying, the film has good pace and follows through dramatically with flashbacks that are well timed.

What did let the film down was the very end sequence, where the children make a decision to hand in their phones as a show of respect and strength against bullying, I find this very weak, it would have been simpler to have a memorial tree planted in the victims name, something that would stand the test of time as a remembrance to the incident contained in the film.

These are unfortunate circumstances that as a parent, I find I can relate to, as a film maker, we have a feature documentary titled 'Zero Tolerance' in development now that covers victims committing suicide due to bullying, it is sad when this happens, but you have to ask if this film was inspired by events over the last few years when so many more stories come out about cyber bullying.
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3/10
Ending of movie ruined the whole movie
auditrix30 January 2012
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The movie kept my interest and had it not been for the last 5 minutes, I'd have rated it above a five.

When a movie deals with a "realistic" topic it should try with its best effort to portray what most likely would have happened in the real world.

A girl sends her boyfriend a nude photo which ends up going viral. Girl is kicked off her sports team and to her life has no meaning. This is very much like what it feels like in high school when something goes awfully wrong.

Girl kills herself and mom is determined to find out why. The movie did a good job following her investigation and the culprit did take me by surprise. The movie should have ended with the hospital scene.

What the movie did next was incredibly silly. The school suddenly rallies behind dead girl and students, on the lead of dead girl's ex-boyfriend and good friend, turn their cell phones in for the rest of the school year.

Are you kidding me? What teenager would really do this? I couldn't believe that the makers of this movie decided to go with this ending. Poor judgement in my mind and it made me rank this under a five.
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2/10
Interesting Detective Story; Message Delivery Not So Proper
TroyeEvans3 March 2012
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While the movie is negatively affected by somewhat odd and untimely flashbacks, the entire structure of storytelling does seem intact and the story turns out to be an interestingly engaging detective-kind of plot. Here's the deal. A teenage girl hangs herself to death and her mother begins unraveling the reason behind her death. It is the same old never-giving-up attitude, despite the fact that it seems reasonable and somewhat believable in the realistic sense. So like any typical detective movies, the investigator is determined to find the truth, only this time the one carrying out the investigation is a mother of a deceased child who she believes is bullied to death. As a ordinary detective story goes, more clues are found as the big picture starts to surface. The story is not bad, but definitely we do not get to see very good editing and organization. The ending perhaps is the part leading to a lot of discussion and questioning. Is this part necessary, or is it too cliché for the viewers' taste? Both are possibilities depending on who you are and what you are expecting. What we get overall is a good detective story that is extremely personal. The most disappointing thing has to be the ending, which seems like a weird and constructed for one and one purpose only, for the message delivery. While I am not judging whether such a way of reinforcing a message is the proper way, it would certainly be much more favorable to spread the message throughout the entire movie, instead of making a scene for achieving that effect, which does not seem like a very smart choice. 6/10
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10/10
A Picture is Worth Much Destruction-****
edwagreen18 January 2012
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Outstanding film dealing with bullying in our schools. In this one, a mother of a daughter who committed suicide wants answers to what drove her daughter to do this. The girl had everything.

It is during the investigation that the mother encounters a hostile environment. None of the students would speak to her and she gets resistance along the way from the principal of the school. After going into the girls' bathroom, the mother had every right to accuse the principal of being incompetent.

What makes this movie so good is the ending.One will be absolutely shocked to see who the culprit was. A picture of the girl in the raw was sent all over. This picture ruined her life.

This is an engrossing, timely movie. There is tragedy throughout the film.
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2/10
Bad, bad, bad movie
scottca07511 July 2015
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Where do I begin with how bad this movie is. The writing is sophomoric, the acting wooden and the plot, while plausible, is badly developed.

Why do they insist on hiring 25 year old actors to play high school kids. If they are going to hire 25 year old actors to play high school kids can't they at least find ones who can act? As to the writing.... they say write what you know. While the writer may know that high school kids can be mean, he has no idea how they act, what they do and no idea about sports, prosecutors, police and the issues around sexting.

Just a bad movie... take the two hours and do something else in life.
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10/10
WOW
haroot_azarian28 August 2020
This is by far the best MarVsta movie I have seen! Superb performances by Liz Vassey and Jenn Proske, and eve n Kelli Goss and Rachel Delante. I think most of the contributors on this page are being stupidly harsh and silly to be honest. This got 10 out of 10 from me!

Having said all that I did not like the fact tgat Markbwas pressuring her to have sex! She was a virgin and wanted to take things slow, and when he turned around in frustration and said it's not a big deal that infuriated me!
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4/10
1) Don't take selfies and 2) If you do, don't post on the internet
spodso12 January 2016
I watched the beginning of this movie this morning on LMN and read where it was about bullying. Then I saw the girl take a selfie of herself to send to her boyfriend. Not sure but why do I think that any girl who does this deserves whatever happens. I am so glad and grateful that cell phones weren't around when my two children were in high school, but I'm also convinced that neither of my children would send incriminating selfies over the internet. I like "instant" digital cameras. I remember the Samsung I bought several years ago that I bought to take pictures during my annual fishing trip to the Adirondacks. I remember reading a review that said you could take pictures of yourself and the reviewer said that might be useful at times. I thought why in the world would that be useful. I guess he was more aware than me of how the current youth in the U.S. are totally spoiled and into themselves.
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4/10
Vengeance in Suburbia
Raptorclaw15516 May 2020
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Ultimately the biggest failure of this film is that it isn't full of the unintentional comedy that its sensationalist title might have you expect. Generally, films like these aimed at its specific demographic have the tendency to be pretty hilarious in how over-the-top the scenarios they depict are. And while this film does have the over-the-top element to it, it's not very humorous for various reasons I'll explain.

The first thing is that this film seems so unfocused. You'd think that the film would be about the evil dangers of sexting but it ends up taking up an anti-bullying angle very soon into the film, followed by a PSA about texting and driving? So much of the focus is also lost because it's more preoccupied with the mystery aspect of the story which is, in itself, extremely convoluted. It has so many things going on yet it doesn't execute any of them particularly well. In the end, the film almost seems to be about nothing- it's a glorified revenge plot that is so buried in wanting to have some kind of message, that it can't decide and scattershots to all of the trendy ones and hopes one of them sticks. This isn't thematic depth, this is writing on the level of a high school sophomore working on their first draft of a screenplay or a really smart middle school kid- but not for a film, made-for-TV or not.

The story is ultimately a mystery-revenge one that spends a lot of its time going nowhere, full of "plot twists" that, I'm guessing, are supposed to surprise the viewer. I include saying it's a revenge plot because, as the main character basically says, she doesn't care if another tragedy like the one that happened to her struck any of the other students in the school, because they were complicit, and that she would rather see them punished... almost giving the subtext that she would rather the same thing happen to someone else, and this is framed as the righteous opinion. Sad thing is, she does get her retribution and the character seems pretty satisfied with it. Of course, her revenge isn't something she takes, herself, but something that just happens, which, of course, makes the main character to still be out as the moral superior in this situation.

The characters in this film are so poorly written and everything about this film's writing is so unrealistic. Living in the suburbs- one of the most insular and comfortable places of privilege one can live in, won't have their houses broken in to, vandalized, have their windows broken, and have threatening letters illegally put in their mailbox because her daughter took nudes of herself which ended up getting sent to everyone. I was astonished seeing that the main character, as vengeful as she is in every action she takes, is treated like her own racial class because of it. This is the sort of catastrophism of a situation that can only be sold to and believed by this film's target demographic.

This film is full of fake crying and it becomes a bit tedious to see after a while. On a good note, Rachel Delante's performance is so surprisingly good it outshines everyone else's. Maybe it's a big fish in a small bowl scenario, but her performance in this film is the single most believable performance in this film. The other performances would probably have been better if the writing wasn't the way it is but, as it stands, the performances are appropriate for a made-for-TV film.

The soundtrack is a surprising high point for this film. Most of it is light pop rock but the tracks they chose were good and helped distract from most of the rest of the film, if only for a moment. Though, I can't say that high school kids in 2011 (I was one in 2011) were going to after parties where a live pop punk band would be playing, that seems very 80s to me and it was probably the funniest thing about this film.

As a small side note, I noticed a bunch of small, but distracting audio issues that seemed bad, even for a made-for-TV film.

As a whole, this film is a disappointment. It's hardly about sexting, it's barely about bullying, and only has a texting and driving scene at the very end to serve the interest of the main character's real goal to cold, hard retribution. This film is the depiction of a worst case scenario that is framed as something that could happen very easily, and is something that I could see definitely being shown to kids by schools in attempts to scare them the same way this film scares the schools and parents themselves. It's nothing special and, ultimately, it's because of that that I found this to be a bit disappointing.
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10/10
Sexting and The Choices We Make
dcworldtoworld16 April 2023
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I remember watching this movie in school as a part of our anti-bullying curriculum. It always stayed with me throughout my life and it spread a message far and wide: Sexting is dangerous.

This movie shows how Sexting can be dangerous and can have severe consequences if one is reckless. Dina had sent her photo to her boyfriend and trusted him to not send it to anyone, which he did not however she did not anticipate that someone else would see it. With things like this, it shows that even though we think we have control over things in reality we don't.

But this movie also shows how your choices can affect your life, case in point Dina sent the photo to her boyfriend which was found by her rival Skylar who then decided to send it to Dina's best friend Claire. However, what Skylar did not know was that her own mother Patricia had gotten hold of Claire's phone and the photo. Patricia ultimately chose to send the photo and that ruined her life and her daughter's life.

This movie teaches the viewer to be careful with what your texting and the choices you make.
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10/10
This is a wake up call to all the USA's middle class parents, and their kids.
michaelt28170208510 September 2013
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Don't read this review if you don't want to know the ending of this film.

The pressure to want their kids to succeed among the USA's middle class parents has to be of primary importance in the competitive world of the free market.

This film fires this home on both barrels. I felt like punching my TV screen from beginning to end when watching this film.

The mother responsible for this girls suicide did not see anything wrong with what she did, "I did it for you", she tells her daughter.

I ask, just how many middle class American parents would be prepared to go to these lengths to help their son and/or daughter to succeed ?

This mother made me angry, her daughter and her daughters friends made me angry.

But the mum comes out on top because she did not seem to care what she had done, until she was found out.

Oh, if only we could see the consequences of our actions 24/7. ?????
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