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8/10
meditative and personal, a quiet little triumph for Sion Sono
Quinoa198429 July 2009
In contrast to Sion Sono's previous film, his most recent work, Be Sure to Share, is, first of all, more than half the running length (108 minutes to 239 minutes for Love Exposure), and secondly more centered on family ties, the love between a father and son as opposed to teenagers.

It's the story of a son, now in his twenties, who looks back on his relationship over the years with his father, who happened to also be the gym teacher at his school and was a strict taskmaster as soccer coach, while he suffers from cancer. He's recovering well in his bed, and soon he and his son are bonding closer than they ever had before, as the father relates his latest habit of fishing at a specific lake on an old bench. But there's a twist as the son finds he's not feeling well, and when he goes to the doctor to get tests he is told that he is suffering from cancer as well- possibly far farther along than his father's is, and potentially fatal. This puts the son into a determined mind-set: he will not die before his father, so that they can hopefully share some peace of mind by that lake to fish.

Sono's film is led mostly by the son's narration, and some of his memories of his father's connection to his son in his youth. We see the unique dynamic where a father is also the son's teacher, and for example the son's punishment for calling his dad "dad" as opposed to coach or teacher during a lesson, or when he is woken up at dawn to jog, a habit the son carries with him for the rest of his life. And when it comes to the scenes of the father and son in present-day, or on occasion the father and his wife (there's a short, touching scene where he asks her to cuddle close with him in the hospital bed, something we get the feeling hasn't happened in a long while), things are more level-headed between the two, the older and slightly wiser father and the son hiding his secret from his parents and his close friends.

There's a twist that occurs which I won't reveal, but it brings ahead one of the most stunning scenes I've seen from Sono. I can say that it takes place at the spot where the father had been fishing, and it involves a moment where the son has to finally come to grips with his true bond with his father. The filmmaker that informs this particular scene by the lake, as well as much of the rest of the picture, is Yasujiro Ozu. His films were dramas that were deceptively simple, at least to start, mostly involving parents and children or grandparents and children, and how over the course of the story we see what lies beneath things, the soul of their ties.

It's the kind of movie that a filmmaker who has just come off of making a four hour epic needs to make; it's not a major work, but as a small production that keeps its aims low, it has some remarkable rewards for the patient viewer. And, in its own way, it features some equally amazing cinematography as L.E., such as with the flashback scenes on the soccer field, or with the tender use of the music score that compliments those little things in life like two people fishing together.
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7/10
Painful
PedroPires9012 February 2021
This was painful to watch. Not because it's a bad film, not because it's not interesting (really guys? Probably you never lost a dad/mum), not because of its structure.

It was painful to watch because...c'mon Sono! A dying dad from a cancer wasn't enough? Did you really need to give us a second cancer? Damn, too much to process and I will need to watch something lighter before I go to sleep.

Very good acting, some brilliant moments by Sono (even if I think he used the dad/son relationship better in The Land of Hope), but I think I will never rewatch this.
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9/10
A touching, inspirational, meditative take on family and love.
Koyama2225 May 2010
In short: Sion Sono's Be Sure To Share is a touching and inspiring film about familial bonds and how important the little moments spent with loved ones are. Superbly directed and acted, Be Sure To Share is, in my opinion, Sono's best film. It is poetic and beautiful, utilizing basic and classical cinematography in order to convey the thoughts and emotions of the characters. If Ozu were still alive today, he would have made this film.

Be Sure To Share opens by showing parts of events explored more thoroughly later in the film, establishing the basic premise: a husband/father/teacher (played by Okuda Eiji) is hospitalized with stomach cancer. His wife and son visit him every day. Shiro, the son, struggles with his father's illness as he has always seen him as a healthy, commanding presence. As his father was his teacher and soccer coach in school, Shiro was never able to connect with him until he became hospitalized. This newfound emotional connection between father and son translates into promises such as "let's go fishing together after I get better". The situation is further complicated when Shiro discovers that he may also have stomach cancer, and that it could possibly be worse than his father's. The ensuing emotional struggle causes Shiro to question what love is and how important the little moments spent with loved ones truly are. He often questions his longtime girlfriend, Yoko (played by Ito Ayumi), if she would stay with him if he had terminal cancer.

Coming off his four hour epic, Love Exposure, Sion Sono has made a drastic transition with Be Sure To Share. Whereas Love Exposure was wild, extravagant, and appealing to cult fans, Be Sure To Share is quiet, poetic, and personal. Well known in Japan as a first class poet, Sono demonstrates his ability incredibly well with this film. Repetition is emphasized to provide emotional connection to specific areas and characters, such as with a certain street corner or with the bus driver's warm greeting every day as the wife travels to visit her husband in the hospital. Be Sure To Share includes some stunningly beautiful countryside imagery interspersed with city and hospital scenes. Music is minimal, but the same track is repeated during emotional scenes to provide the viewer with a further connective force and add emotional depth. Overall, the music is calming and fits well with the pace of the film.

Acting is impressive throughout Be Sure To Share. The lead, Akira (from the popular music group Exile), is impressive in his first real movie role. He is able to show a vast range of emotions; there are often close-ups of his face in which facial expression conveys to the viewer the conflicting thoughts going through his head. There was the potential of overacting in his role, but he contained the character well. Both the father and mother of Shiro also acted well, along with Ito Ayumi as Yoko. In my opinion, the film was the perfect length and used its screen time well. Sono is really good at this, as even the four hour long Love Exposure felt well-paced despite its length. Cinematography was also top-notch, utilizing a mostly still camera in unique angles or slow pans. The camera work was useful in identifying important places that became a theme of nostalgia throughout the film.

There is a particular scene towards the end of the film that is striking in its poetic brilliance. If you haven't seen the film I won't spoil it for you, but if you have you know which scene I'm talking about. It is shocking, but at the same time fitting and beautiful. By fulfilling his promise, Shiro fills the hole in his heart–a connection between him and his father. Nostalgia is a theme visited a number a times throughout Be Sure To Share–both establishing Shiro's distance from his father by flashbacks of school times and through discussion with friends. When Shiro, Yoko, and Keita visit their old school, memories come pouring back–mostly memories of Shiro's father, who had been their coach and mentor.

Be Sure To Share is a very reserved film, one that depicts real life. From Shiro's morning runs to work to the quiet moments spent with his girlfriend, the film seeks to show that moments like these are not wasteful or meaningless. When Shiro realizes that he may have a worse illness than his father, these small moments become larger and even more meaningful as he struggles with acceptance, regret, and the promises that he desires to keep. Be Sure To Share is surprisingly not over dramatic as it deals with suffering, regret, and ultimate acceptance. It is a realistic film that explores emotions and succeeds at being emotionally investing because of the structure of the story. Die-hard fans of Sono's previous works may not enjoy this film as much as those, but that does not diminish the fact that Be Sure To Share is his most accomplished film so far. Watch it.

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9/10
"I love you, man".
sitenoise11 August 2010
Sion Sono has made some strange films. This is not one of them unless you consider it strange for him to make such a normal film. Be Sure to Share is a small, simple, and sentimental film, not typically Sono-esquire. There's no blood and there's no running around with a hand-held camera. There's plenty of emotional desperation but it's of the uplifting kind. The film is about a twenty-seven year old young man who wants to find a moment of bonding, a way of saying thank you, "I love you, man" to his dying father. The title says it all. It's not too mushy, though. The film works because of it's simplicity. There is the big scene that sort of stretches credulity but we could see it coming and Sono follows it up with one of the more hilarious uses of the line "didn't see that one coming" I've ever heard. It's off-camera and sort of eavesdropped upon and it made me laugh out loud.

The film is beautifully cast. Everyone is lovable. Idol-boy Akira does a very credible job playing a normal guy who all of a sudden must deal with mortality, in more ways than one. Ayumi Ito is adorable as his girlfriend and has one of the best crying scenes I've seen in a film. Keiko Takahash is pure mom incarnate, an immaculate performance. Eiji Okuda is good as the father when he's lovable and nice but he also has to play the predictably strict father who's tough to love, in flashbacks, so we get a sense of whatever it is that that film cliché gives us. That's the only weak part of the film but it's not enough to spoil it.
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