I assume you are confusing Tolontan with Narcis Hogea.
We can see Hogea, along his wife and daughter, driving to the cemetery to visit his son's resting place. There they meet the grandparents.
Alex Hogea (19) died on 22nd November 2015 in a hospital in Vienna, suffering with infected burn wounds following a delayed transfer from Romania. He was a University student in Bucharest.
During the mourning period it is custom for people to visit the grave of a loved one quite often to tend to the grave, light candles, bring flowers and offer a symbolic drink to the deceased. The scene is tragic as the grieving family is trying to cope with the sudden death of Alex who had his whole life ahead of him.