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inspiring documentary
Buddy-5111 February 2005
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The powerful and moving documentary "Hiding and Seeking" gets to the heart of what religion and faith are really all about.

Menachem Daum, although himself an orthodox Jew, is concerned that his two even more conservative sons - yeshiva students living in Israel - are becoming isolationist in their attitudes towards the gentile world. To prove to them that there are good gentiles in the world, he takes them and his wife on a trip to Poland to have them meet the people who risked their lives by hiding the boys' maternal grandfather and two uncles from the Nazis during World War II. In fact, the boys and their mother owe their very existence to the extraordinary compassion and heroism of this "goyim" family. Although Daum was raised to see virtually all non-Jews as enemies, his life experience has taught him that people are people and that good and evil do not break down along sectarian lines. It is this humanistic philosophy that Daum hopes to impart to his sons.

The "hiding" of the title - beyond the obvious reference to the secretion of Jews during the holocaust - denotes what the practitioners of all religions do when they see themselves as somehow separate from and superior to those around them, and, as a result, build up barriers between their own kind and the outside world. This attitude creates divisions that, paradoxically, end up destroying the very people they are designed to protect. The "seeking" comes in Daum's epic quest to prove to his children that all people have the potential for goodness if only they choose to act upon it. Daum's egalitarian spirit and implicit faith in human goodness - despite having himself grown up in the shadow of the holocaust - provide the inspirational beacon than shines forth from the film.

Near the end of the movie, the Daums finally get to meet two of the people who risked their lives to save the family's relatives. The encounter is profoundly moving and compelling, and even Daum's sons seem transformed by the experience. But are they? "Hiding and Seeking" may be a "feel good" experience, but it isn't a fairy tale, and directors Baum and Oren Rudavsky are not afraid to end on an ambiguous note. Life, we are led to believe, asks a heck of a lot more complicated questions than an 84-minute movie - even a very good 84-minute movie - can answer. Not bad for a film in what is usually a know-it-all genre.

Filled with laughter and tears as well as a profound insight into the human condition, "Hiding and Seeking" is a rewarding and enlightening film.
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10/10
Immensely touching and filled with wisdom
planktonrules28 August 2008
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I happen to love documentaries and so it isn't surprising I would watch HIDING AND SEEKING. Sadly, as this isn't a super-popular genre, I wonder just how many people will get to see this touching film, as it has so much to offer and is so unique. While I have seen documentaries about Judaism as well as the Holocaust, this one offers some fresh perspectives and an angle that I'd never really considered.

Menachem Daub is the son of a Holocaust survivor and is himself an Orthodox Jew. However, he's concerned about his even more conservative sons who live in Israel and go to the Yeshiva for religious discussion and teaching. Despite their devout faith, Menachem can see that they tend to see the world in an "us versus them" mentality--that it's the world against the Jews. This distrust, he fears, will keep them isolated--not realizing that there are many good and just gentiles out there. So, to illustrate this point, he gets his sons to accompany him and his wife on a trip to Poland to search for information about those just gentiles who helped rescue their relatives from extermination during the Holocaust. It's pretty obvious that the sons don't feel much desire to make the trip and they actually seemed a bit smug about the whole thing--choosing to believe the worst about humanity.

Once they begin their quest, however, the picture changes quite unexpectedly. They are actually able to track down family members who saved Menachem's father-in-law and are very surprised at the response they receive. While they are welcomed by these dear elderly people, they feel pangs of guilt when these Poles ask them why the three brothers they rescued never wrote to them or helped compensate them for the money they spent hiding them for nearly two years--even though the young men promised. Now, instead of seeing the gentile world as wicked, you actually see that some of the survivors were less than noble themselves--especially the father-in-law who cannot bring himself to make this or a follow-up trip due to overwhelming feelings of guilt.

However, it's not all about guilt, as Menachem and his family feel an obligation to this Polish family. So, by the end, they make amends, to a degree, and do what they can to repay these people for their kindness. It's all extremely touching and will most likely make most people shed a tear or two. It's a wonderful portrait of humanity and decency. Sadly, the film didn't end on a perfect note, as the impact on Menachem's sons appears to be less than he'd hoped. Some may dislike this possibly unsatisfying ending, but to me it made the film because it felt so honest and realistic. It's tough for people to let go of hate and suspicion after they've lived with it for so long.

Within the film are so many touching moments that pack an emotional wallop. One of the most precious is Menachem's final scenes with his elderly father. The father appears to be well into his 90s, very infirmed, a bit senile and confined to a wheelchair in a nursing home. Despite his very frail condition, seeing him kissing his son and connecting was one of the most touching scenes I have ever witnessed on film. Additionally, the scenes involving his father-in-law were dynamite. The way he tried to dissuade Menachem from making the trip was confusing but once you understood the entire picture, these scenes became quite powerful.

A lovely film full of great moments that transcend ethnicity or religious background, this film should definitely be seen by more people. See it and tell your friends. Also, when reading the reviews, I was very impressed by Roland E. Zwick's--it really encapsulated the film well. Try giving it a read.

FYI--Menachem Daum's other film credit is the documentary A LIFE APART: HASIDISM IN America. I've seen this film and can also strongly recommend it. I sure hope Daum makes more films, as his style and skills are exceptional.
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