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8/10
The Dark Corners of Love and Obsession
gradyharp2 May 2006
Writer/director Matteo Garrone has created in PRIMO AMORE yet another atmospheric film (not unlike 'L'Imbalsamatore') that deftly explores the dark side of human interactions and motivations. His style is Gothic in nature but with a contemporary setting manipulated with quirky camera work and artistically designed sets that give the viewer the feeling of watching an experiment in a laboratory, the characters all being bounded by cage-like visual devices. Yes, this is film noir, but Garrone develops his bizarre characters so well that we grow along with their transformations into the icons they become.

Vittorio (Vitaliano Trevisan) is a goldsmith who exists on the modest, long-held family business of creating jewelry from molten gold in the ancient manner. We first meet him looking through the grid of a train station where he awaits Sonia (Michela Cescon), a young girl who has answered his classified ad for a date. They meet, Sonia is pleased, but Vittorio tells her right away that he expected her to be thinner. Sonia offers to return to her home out of town, a garden home she shares with her robust brother (Roberto Comacchio), but Vittorio decides he wants to try the date. They have a little courtship and all seems to go well until Vittorio begins to suggest that Sonia lose weight. They move into a nice home ('the site of Romeo and Juliet' the realtor boasts) and their coexistence begins.

Vittorio is confronted with the needs of his business expanding stimulated by an offer to partner his business from an entrepreneur who insists Vittorio make only heavy bracelets and substantial jewelry in response to what the public is buying: Vittorio has always preferred the tiny, thin, light weight delicate carvings of beauty rather than the bulkier profitable items. The decision causes Vittorio's two old workers to leave him and Vittorio is depressed.

As Sonia complies with Vittorio's ongoing obsession for her to be thin, Sonia's friends and brother tell her to beware of the strange demands of Vittorio, and despite Sonia's hunger for food, her hunger for being loved is greater and she slowly moves toward anorexia. Eventually in the solitary confinement of their home the two come into conflict and the result is a tragedy few would see coming.

The layers of meaning are deep: Vittorio's passion for the thin, delicate gold objects he creates as being things of true beauty are mirrored by his obsession for Sonia to be like those objects. Sonia works as a model for an art school and as she watches the students' works alter her once nubile body to a dwindling form, she feels terrified that she will waste away. Yet her need to not be rejected by Vittorio keeps her starving her body rather than her heart. Throughout this downward spiral of physical vs emotional attraction Garrone frames the scenes in increasingly complex grids, confining the story every more tightly until the ultimate rupture.

The acting is excellent and the combination of scene design and cinematography make this a dark but intensely interesting film experiment. It may not be a movie for everyone, but for those who appreciate avante garde stories and cinematic treatment, this is a film to study. Grady Harp
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7/10
The dark side of the love. Desire of possession, weakness and psychological games between lovers in a 2004 Verona pretty far from the one of Romeo and Juliet.
camurrist9 March 2004
The dark side of the love. Desire of possession, weakness and psychological games between two lovers in a 2004 Verona pretty far from the Romeo and Juliet one's. Garrone strikes, in spite of the bitter critics he received during the 54.Filmfestival in Berlin, where the film was presented. A majestic photography and a deep care of particulars make the film a small esthetical masterpiece, which make oneself forget, the strong north-east Italian accent of the two main characters. There is a lot of work behind the two main actors, but sometimes you have the feeling they are a little too shallow in comparison to the deep thoughts they do. The theme of anorexia is a sort of taboo in our society, but Garrone deals with it with a lot of maturity and sometimes irony, which bring the audience even deeper in the darkness of the story, until the wonderful monologue which close the curtains. Provocative, but real, Garrone is a tough director.

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7/10
See this movie if you want to stop dieting forever!
SONNYK_USA13 May 2005
Italian director Matteo Garrone ("The Embalmer") has quickly established himself as a connoisseur of dark dramas that are almost as distressing to watch as they are interesting. However, this dark romance features an amazing performance by Michela Cescon as "Sonia' who (not unlike Christian Bale in "The Machinist") is forced to lose a great deal of body weight during the course of the film\ The symbolic implications of this story are known all-too-well by women around the world who diet, diet, diet to please the men they love. Not to mention the fact that all of the media outlets continually express the idea that 'thin is in'. But how does one know when they are too thin, and when their own self-preservation is at stake.

The problem for Sonia is that Vittorio (Vitaliano Trevisan), the man she is smitten with, has asked her to commit to a program of extreme weight loss so that she will conform to his idea of 'purity'. As a goldsmith it is his profession to burn away excess metal in order to yield gold in pure quantities. But it's his obsessiveness with all things being thin (and pure) that eventually causes him to lose his business and quite a bit of his sanity.

Supposedly this story is based on an actual incident before it was novelized and now filmed. And I have to say that if I hadn't heard it was based on a real case I'd never have believed a woman would put up with such obvious abuse, but then again, women viewers may find more in common with Sonia and that identification could yield a more welcome response to this dark drama.

If any parent thinks their female teen may be falling into the trap of thinking thin all the time along with the possibility of contracting an eating disorder then this film could be the cure for that ideation.

One final note: Sonia's body is shown with full-frontal female nudity, first as an art class model and later as she examines the effects of her weight loss. Parents should take this into consideration or view the film first and then bring the teens. Italian films are always better the second time around anyway (due to the speed subtitling).

Your mileage may vary on this one, but definitely don't go to see this one on an empty stomach or you'll be ravenous by the time you leave the theater - order a large popcorn on the way in (extra butter) - lol!
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7/10
Disturbing tale of obsessive control
borgolarici27 November 2022
Somewhat based on real events, this movies is a dark tale about the need for control. The plot is very simple: a man, obsessed with the idea of having an extremely thin woman to own entirely, targets a somewhat fragile and lonely girl to make her "perfect". The most disturbing thing is how realistic the movie is, it could be a clinical textbook: the gaslighting, manipulation and love bombing, all the tricks someone can use to brainwash a partner. There's an impending sense of doom and anxiety as the relationship progresses and the man's mask slips to reveal his true face, the one of a narcissist who want to play God.
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9/10
When in the movies is possible to introduce another kind of love
dadie9 November 2004
This movie is not a surprise for people saw "L'imbalsamatore" from the same director, because piece of geniality were present also there. This movie is wonderful, watching it you are satisfy for the choice. The story is incredible, because, as the title say, it speak about love, about two person that meat each other and fall in love, but it is not so simple. The strange love between them is out of mind, and what is incredible to me is the easy way that the watcher understand this love In fact, in my opinion, it should be very hard to take all the parts and reason of this strange love, and Garrone is able to let understand both position. Even if the men position is mentally sick you can realize his position and I think it is because of Garrone. Landscapes and locations are very good, and the perfection of light and color are not new because of the previous movie. Good choice also for the two actors, the man is totally inside the character, the girl really lost weight during shots, that's crazy but ideal for the movie. The music gives the correct atmosphere that's why won same awards. I wonder why these products remain in Italy and is not exported usually it go just to France and Germany but no more.....why? I am proud of this kind of Italian cinema and I would like to know what the foreigners think.
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9/10
A beautiful, disturbing experience
shashkin4 August 2006
I have not seen this director's work before, but will now watch out for it. This film is best watched in reflective silence, to allow the characters to sink in. It asks many questions: how far are we willing to go for love? How can we transform ourselves into ideals without losing our self.. How can we reconcile the cruels hooks of the body with the splendors of the mind? Goldsmith Vittorio obsesses with form, over the essence of things, and finds in his willing, sensual girlfriend Sonia the clay to shape into his idealized form. She sacrifices her cupcakes and cookies to the altar of love, but the desire to find perfection can become the first brush of an abusive spiral.. This is is not a date movie. A movie that leaves the taste of ashes, and yet one that you'll remember.
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5/10
Not really about romantic love....or any other kind of love
emo_ville200210 June 2006
Warning: Spoilers
*****Some SPOILERS, but not much more than were in the movie's description here*****

This was a very bizarre movie, the title is very deceiving. If you're expecting a normal love story or a raucous 1960s Sophia L/Marcello M sexy comedy romp, forget it!

Beautifully filmed and well acted, though the subject matter was certainly not about any kind of real *love*.

I always enjoy 'indie' films because I know they'll be different, they are usually more thought provoking than mainstream films, though when they get this far fetched, well.....you have to wonder...is it for shock value? Not that it's a gory film, but the subject matter is quite disturbing. One hopes there aren't many couples out there like these two!

Synopsis: A woman moves in with a man she is in 'love' with. He begins to control her almost immediately by involving her in a bizarre eating ritual and mind control situation which is based on getting her weight down to what he thinks is 'normal'.

Of course, the lack of nutrients affects her brain (as well as her body), which causes her to fail in other areas of her life.....her job suffers, she has no social life, no friends, no hobbies.....basically the woman has NO life away from him, except a job which she can no longer do the basics involved.

Her relationship with her brother is also questionable, as he doesn't seem all that concerned by the change in her demeanor and the fact that she's living this very isolated life with her strange boyfriend. The boyfriends own life is also spinning out of control.

Her lover basically gets ultimate control of her life because she's too weak mentally and physically to fight him. The viewer will remain interested, as you'll wonder how this will all end.

You've got to wonder, in this day and age, if women are so desperate for 'love' and/or attention that they would allow themselves to get into these sorts of depths of self-loathing & self-hatred. This bizarre *love* relationship became all about the man and his control, not the woman or her feelings on any level.

What woman in their right mind literally starves themselves to fit the ideal of some control freak man? I suppose, a mentally ill woman or one totally lacking any self-esteem.

That aspect of the female character is never explored: her views on what was happening to her. Why she even allowed it to happen at all.

Was she already mentally ill to think the way she was being treated was normal behaviour? What type of person allows themselves to become this manipulated to a point where they might die?? There is nothing she asked of him in trade for her bizarre devotion. Most relationships are about some sort of compromise, he did nothing for the woman, he simply controlled her. His declarations of love rang hollow.

Basically, there was not enough background about the characters to explain their strange behaviour and her blind acceptance of his control masked as 'love'.

While watching films such as this you have to wonder about the directors views towards women. Though, later on, I discovered this was supposedly based on a true story. Hopefully, it was not the directors point of view to show such a weak woman, we hope!

Sure, we are in an age of bizarre standards for both men and women. 'Everyone' wants to look like some celebrity or a super model. Plastic surgery and being extremely thin is now accepted as normal.

The media has bombarded us with unachievable 'standards' of beauty. What we see in the fashion magazines isn't real to begin with...Photoshop, anyone?

Though, this movie doesn't touch upon that aspect of beauty standards. The man didn't seem to have a fashion magazine 'ideal' that he wanted of his lover. He was the sole architect, it was HIS warped ideal he was forcing upon his lover. Perhaps his need to control stemmed from his background as an artisan.

Of course, love had nothing to do with this man's manipulation of that sad, pathetic woman. This movie was not about love. In the male characters warped mind he might have perceived it as 'love', though he was as disturbed as the female character.

Clearly, love was not portrayed from the perspective of two rational, sane human beings.

Remember, we must love and care about ourselves first, before we can truly love someone else. The female character in this film seemed to have nothing but hate for herself. One would suspect, if she allowed her creepy lover to manipulate her to that extent, she wasn't happy with herself to begin with! Manipulation is NOT 'love'.

I found this movie extremely disturbing on so many levels, yet I would recommend it. This movie should be a must-see for young impressionable teenage girls and body obsessed young women who find themselves being manipulated by their boyfriends or husbands..

Clearly, the message here is about the extreme lengths some people go for 'love' and to be desired by another human being. If anyone thinks this movie is about real 'love', they need to get their head examined......and if they themselves are in this sort of relationship, this movie will definitely help you to re-think the meaning 'love' and your partner!
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9/10
darkly brilliant
indy-398 March 2007
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Stumbled on this film on Sundance channel prior to leaving for work...saw one scene and decided to watch for it so I could see it from the beginning. I wasn't disappointed- this is brilliant film-making- a story of a control obsessed man- who attempts to makeover his new girlfriend physically into his idea of perfection. All the while he is totally losing control of his "other" life: he is late for appointments, unable to deal with buyers, uncompromising in his dealings with partners. The girlfriend is swept up in his obsession for her- his single mindedness about her- to the point where, emaciated, she claims to "like herself better"- although her brother describes her as a "wilted flower". Not exactly the normal effect love has, but this is not really that kind of love story. This is "First Love", and Vittorio's first love or primary love is hardly this or any other girlfriend. Vittorio creates delicate little pieces of jewelry that his partners moan are "too much detail, not enough weight." Happily the same can not be said of this film which has plenty of both. See it if you're serious.
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5/10
Matteo Garrone and Michela Cescon save this movie from being a total misfire
tmpsvita15 November 2020
Even though Vitaliano Trevisan (the protagonist) is completely incompetent as an actor and is interepetetion is unbearable, even though the screenplay is pretentious, even though the dialogs are written poorly; the movie managed to not be a completely trash and that's because there are a few great shots but mainly because Michela Cescon's great interpretation give to the story a soul
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