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The Dinner (2017)
Our Sad State Of Affairs Highlighted in "The Dinner, Spoilers
As a 59 year old woman of color who worked 30 years in business and corporate this is what I observed. I watched many of my favorite actors portray this painfully truthful story explaining why our prisons are filled with innocent men of color, instead of the rightful murderer, my heart broke for the families of the prisoners and for the elitist children being raised without real respect for whomever the parents have no respect for. It is accompanied with the mistreatment, foul mouthed and mannered distorted, sense of entitlement being taught in words, actions habits, insults, bad joke they see, hear, mimic and are allowed to spew at children or adults with or without violence and a group of mockers mobbing one human being to make the terrorizing more satisfying. The nastier the better as kids grow up risking their lives literally bullying as taught and trained they can say and do whatever they want without consequences if they have they right parents. The delusion of entitlement is so bizarrely embedded the child continues to disrespectfully speak as an adult down to his parents, and still lie about a ball he threw breaking a window years before and allowing the child literally to get away with deliberate murder, to be the parent speaking to his father in a way any black parent would not never,ever allow. It is sickening and refreshing to see the truth expressed so vividly and blatantly. The fathers are enemies and love each other and hate their lives yet stand defiantly together as parents to defend their blood at any cost, activate and use the their privileged power and position. Would'nt any good parent of any ethnicity do the same? At least until they were identified then all hell would break lose. The loyalty is admirable and at least the truth of what should happen is openly discussed. The act against the homeless woman is worse than a hate crime and is carried out as a right. it made my skin crawl as he described it in his way, the thing beneath him the fallen, broken, likely a Vietnam vet, displaced housewife, a human being left with a collection of whats left after a lifetime of their losses wrapped up in rags and and old newspaper. It would be his father if he did not have money and caregivers, family,loved ones to care and supervise the mental illness. The dinner is a feast after a kill and the racist overtones in language referring to Bo as "It", accusing a child of playing the race card displays the taught racism, right to demean,slanderous despising of a child he identifies with as an object, thing. The mentally ill father communicates with the stereotypical rhetoric and he hates himself, fears his wife and son are conspiring against him and the fact the old woman could have been him so easily. The ill father goes after "that little black thing", in everyone's way, described, objectified have things done to it when enraged, angered because he can. After assaulting Bo abandoned by the mom who left him in that fresh hell to fend for himself with a new stepmother, why not just out them? What is the assistant doing saying anything when the Senator told her it was a personal, family matter stay out of it? It smacks of, "I have slept with him so I get to speak up for my man, tip those panties, oops? It is the core of real deep seeded systemic racism passed down from generation to generation, the part no one ever sees or cops to. The feeling true racists believe no matter how wide they smile, how many black friends they have or employ or sleep with the color of their skin means they are so above, in another class of humanity allowing justifiable mistreatment, name calling, the right to say whatever they please in referring to any person of color even a innocent Black American child picked as a token to satisfy the socially correct mother parading him out for other white mothers and friends to applaud her benevolence, impress her husbands supporters and get votes from those who will never be accepted, respected nor treated as an equal. His own brother talking through the entire film about right, wrong, ethics and history admitted he never even votes. A true elitist racist who does have to vote to protect or defend his rights even though he is technically mentally ill and disabled. Quite revealing
Just, Melvin: Just Evil (2000)
Do not watch unless you have a strong spirit...
As a child of sexual abuse and many unsuccessful kidnap attempts and attacks by friends, strangers and live in people whom my mom befriended through church when their family was down on their luck; I am sad and sickened by the character Just Melvin. I resent the fact a state nursing home is caring for him when he should be charged and imprisoned especially since he is not sorry and denies everything in the face of overwhelming proof offered up by the completely destroyed spirit ghosts formerly his children,grandchildren whomever he got to he defiled at his will and it is sick. There seems to be a exemption by prosecutors for molesters who get sick and old like oh that is punishment enough but the victims see no justice and it makes them feel worthless and only other men offer pity for them. WHY! They are just old molesters who probably are a threat where ever they live because that sickness of robbing another of their privacy, control over their innocence, own body,never, hear me clearly never dies until they are stopped by castration, prison. or death. Feel sorry for him, never! Look at the poor wrecked remains of people who are cripples, drunks,depressed,suicidal shells of human beings all because of him? The children's laughter is sad, I hate myself, nervous energy so they do not cry; for the ignorant responders who commented, "get over it, suck it up" and all the other heartless, ring-ding quips only molesters or people who have never been molested nor had anyone they love molested would say. The emotional scar stays unhealed forever! The inability to really trust anyone because when the abuse occurs you cannot figure out what is so bad about yourself the abuser picks you to do such vile things to? Why me you ask? I must be bad you tell yourself and the shame and feeling dirty, soiled, unclean spiritually never goes away. So if you need someone to feel sorry for pray for death of the molester of the children so they can finally be at peace knowing he has paid God! Add up all the money they have spent on infections, sleeping pills, downers to forget the pain and humiliation and helplessness as tiny babies with grown man laying on them crushing them, ripping up their insides and abusing them, stripping all dignity from them with a body part being used as a weapon over and over. Terrorizing them and sending them to school stinking, dirty, damaged mentally, spiritually, avoided by other children afraid of them.
The Dilemma (2011)
Semi Spoiler and Rant On Storyline and Message
This may be considered a spoiler because the male "bromance' in full tilt was boring and anti-women. No one took responsibility for the husband cheating? What T.F is up with that? No "Happy endings photos" were taken and shoved in the wife's face proving her husbands repeated cheating which was first by the way and the beginning of destroying their relationship and home by lying and making a fool of the woman who loves him and then her cheating tit for tat. I am so sick of the demented psychology of cheating ass men who expect their wives to wash their dirty drawers after they stay out all night, drink, waste bill money,then sweat their wives about how much they spend, lie, waste money on slimy, whores, endanger their women waiting at home with the chance of catching diseases, cheat their ass off and expect their wives to sit at home knitting, while they bring home half ass excuses and take advantage of the fact they married a decent woman and instead of treating her like a queen and experience real devotion and love one woman with all their heart and soul and see what wonders that yields. Leave well kept,honest, loving, faithful women for real men who want a real woman to go home to who he can love, as he commits to one good, loyal, faithful woman. Stay your ass at home lying, using, cheating husbands and you will not have to worry about your wife who has waited night after night,lie after lie,betrayal after betrayal and been made a complete fool of thinking you love her when you are using her honesty, loyalty to use her for your atm, maid, cook, child care worker and help mate and you continue cheating for fun all your own. Home building, caring and maintaining takes work, being a husband and a daddy takes time at home contributing, not giving orders then walking out after you lie to avoid participating in your family life and go hang with scum. No one wants to sit at home wondering where the one they love is and it is not a man's right to be a liar, sneak, and cheat at the expense of an honest woman. Give your love to the woman who loves you and stop glorifying money grabbing, HIV infected, whores and infidelity like it is a male right of passage. If you turn her into cheater because you are never home, what is good for the goose is good for the gander, but look at all the damage you have done wasting a good relationship to whore around! Yuck@! and the movie was lousy on top of having a infuriating male dominating,controlling message of lying and cheating on your woman is okay and men never have to take responsibility for it but they can sure jump up and be heart broken and upset when they get a taste of their own medicine! Treat people you love like you want to be treated or suffer the consequences would have been a good story line but the men rule by lies and violence story line sucked, no pun intended!