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5/10
Interesting portrait of dour sex surrogate but not enough twists and turns in the plot
Turfseer8 February 2015
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I must confess that I'm quite on the fence regarding neophyte director Anja Marqurdt's debut film, "She's Lost Control." I suspect in part she was aiming for some kind of suspense thriller but ends up more with a psychological portrait of a lonely New York Master's Degree candidate in psychology who also happens to work as a sexual surrogate. The protagonist is Ronah (Brooke Bloom) who is supervised by a licensed therapist, Dr. Cassidy. Ronah and Cassidy appear to be quite ethical in dealings with patients but there's something a little cold and controlling about both of them.

Marqurdt attempts to flesh out Ronah by chronicling her life outside her work as a sexual surrogate. It appears that Ronah is not very helpful with her brother who is dealing with their senile mother upstate. She also has been taking hormone injections so she can freeze her eggs, hoping that one day she can have children. What's more a leak in her bathroom leads to trouble from a downstairs neighbor, who eventually names her as a party in a lawsuit. The dour Ronah also maintains a stiff upper lip even as she is receiving mysterious calls from a possible stalker.

Ronah is not quite a sad sack and the controlling nature of her personality is perhaps a cautionary tale for any "professional" who takes their job a little too seriously. Ronah makes it clear that she won't give up on her introverted patient, Johnny, who appears to be a difficult nut to crack. Johnny, an anesthesiologist assistant, refuses to cooperate for the most part in the beginning of the therapy sessions. Meanwhile, Ronah's relationships with a few other patients, appear to be going normally.

We do get an idea that something's not exactly cool with Johnny but it's not until the end when he becomes violent. The problem is that Ronah's patient maneuvers to attempt to get Johnny to open up, drag on and the pacing of the film slows down considerably. There just aren't enough twists and turns in the plot (except for Johnny's meltdown), that will keep an audience interested for an entire movie.

What exactly is Ms. Marqurdt trying to say about Ronah at the end of her journey? Are we supposed to have sympathy for her because she's the victim of a sexual assault? Was it partially her fault because she ignored the signs that something malevolent was about to befall her? Was her "controlling" nature the reason why she ended up as such a lonely character? The ambiguous ending feels unsatisfying and perhaps next time this newbie director will be more explicit in tidying up her denouement.
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6/10
Complex
derek-duerden19 February 2024
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This prompted quite a number of questions for me.

Firstly, how much due diligence and safeguarding was involved in the screening and monitoring of the clients? Long before she was indeed hurt by one of them, I was thinking that he looked rather scary and dangerous - i.e. Not just a man with "intimacy issues".

Secondly, was she really emotionally robust enough to be doing this in the first place? Maybe it was a "natural" step on from her PhD and financial situation but that doesn't mean it was a good idea and/or right for her...

Having said that, there was some good stuff here in the establishment of mood and the pacing, although I did wonder about some of the continuity (e.g. What happened to the downstairs neighbour?)

Unsettling.
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3/10
Slow and unengaging
grantss31 December 2020
Not sure what I was expecting from this film. (I largely watched it because of Joy Division's 'She's Lost Control'). So, as I had no expectations, I can't say I'm disappointed (except that the Joy Division song doesn't feature at all).

The film means well, showing the life of someone whose job it is to help emotionally and socially stunted people open up and embrace intimacy and relationships. Yet, despite the empathy and engagement this should engender it all feels so empty.

I was only mildly engaged by the main character. Everything happens so slowly and with a ho-humness to it. Things do ramp up at the end but even then it doesn't really lead to anything profound or interesting.
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7/10
Nice woman in a difficult situation
jonassladen29 September 2021
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Irretrievably we followed the character down a misbegotten path. I enjoyed the movie for what seemed to be an interesting and unusual subject matter. Brooke Bloom's portrayal of Ronah initially felt as realistic as possible for she had become adept with her "professional intimacy", blending the two, a rather fine line to walk. With the best of intentions, her work was to selflessly help her patients. She could maintain this level of intimate disengagement with her other clients but falling for Johnny was an unplanned mistake. She felt she could help him and in her lonely state she mistook his slight progress as a minor breakthrough. When she actually crossed the line and initiated kissing him on the lips, how obvious that she was in too deep.

Unfortunately Johnny had broadcast aggression and his potential for violence from their first meeting. From that beginning and from her sessions with the psychiatrist, it was predictable that a young woman's career of sexual surrogacy in New York would practically require an accompanying bodyguard. Certainly sex workers of all stripes usually have protection nearby.

From Johnny's talk of strangling her all the way to the car ride with her brother; the five stages? The film's ending segments were Ronah's sad reality. Following the misadventures we see muddled up behavior of anger and a near miss, bargaining at the cop shop about how to file abuse charges. (Funny how her neighbor in a breach of friendship felt no qualms levying a suit against Ronah herself). A depressing walk. Leaving the city. Masking her abrasions, and her feelings. Going home to better deal with her other relationships. This we've seen, in life as on screen.
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1/10
Worst movie ever!!!
vmarc24 June 2015
The movie was sort of interesting and could have been decent however it was ruined by an extremely poor ending. Actually you can't even call it an ending. The movie had no point at all what so ever. I don't understand why the movie was not completed better. It had potential and they seriously dropped the ball. The whole movie you think a few different things may happen however, they never do! Everything you think interesting might happen, well it just doesn't.

I really just want the hour and a half of my life back that has been now eternally lost!!!! I'm sure most people will expect more out of even a low budget movie such as this. Watch it and see for yourself. Once you lose your hour and a half of your life you too will understand!!!!

By the way this is my first review ever. I just had to warn the world of this poor movie script!!!!
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Legalized Prostitution. Dr. Pimp
monelleanti15 November 2015
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The flick in and of itself was OK, pretty good. Entertaining, informative. Its basically about legalized prostitution thanks to The Doctor Psychologist, whom in this case was an intern's pimp and the intern got what, was of course, to be expected. I'm sure a true pro (a sex worker/prostitute) would find this movie fairly predicable--- "rote"--- somewhat amusing.

The direction of this flick was killer. Cut-up, yet linear. Not too far out. The acting perfect. Also, I don't think there was an opinion expressed by the director--- unless its what I got out of the movie--- which makes it subversive. Nice.

Can't remember much of the soundtrack, other than dialog, sounds of the environment etc.. When songs and music tend to be too remembered--- the flick itself probably minor. This flick kept it naked--- any music strictly incidental--- oh yeah, there was one cool scene where the intern wanna be seducer, did turn up some sound device playing New Order type corny disco (the song had great lyrics, I always keep subtitles on), with an am radio quality--- very nice.

By the way The intern's personal life seemed to have been a bit "weird" (whose isn't really). Kind of funny. Mother dead found in a ditch, hit and run or something? Brother probably needed sex therapy (not from the intern, but from her mentor--- an older chick;Oh wait. Was that guy her brother? Did she return to him? Check this flick out. Dang nice.
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1/10
Brave New World
lavatch18 March 2023
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Aldous Huxley's prophetic, dystopian novel "Brave New World" was published in 1932. The film "She's Lost Control" demonstrates how perceptive Huxley was in predicting the ugly future in the area of behavioral psychology.

Ronah is the protagonist who is injecting herself with hormones and harvesting her eggs with the hope that they may come in handy in the future. This detail is a tip of the hat to Huxley's novel.

But the main focus of Ronah's work is that she is an "intimacy" helpler, working with disturbed men to help them past their barriers. This component of the film was so preposterous that one is curious exactly what the writer-director intended as a message.

The sleazy character of Dr. Alan Cassidy served as Ronah's procurer, providing her with "clients." Ronah is completing a Masters Degree in behavioral psychology, and she hopes that she can buy an upscale New York apartment where she will be able to entertain future clients. Her wise friend Irene asks for time to think it over when Ronah asks her co-sign on the apartment deal.

The main association depicted with Ronah and one of her johns was with the man appropriately named Johnny. The film's title becomes evident when Ronah's boundaries begin to collapse and she gets overly attached to her Johnny. After she is nearly beaten to a pulp by her intimacy-challenged Johnny, Ronah discovers that she is incapable of answering the most basic questions from the police, and she decides not to file a report.

As if the film were not already a conceptual and artistic mess, there literally was no ending. Instead of bringing the action to a close with a main point, the filmmakers leave the audience with the image of Ronah driving with her brother with no clue about what she has gleaned from her traumatic experience with Johnny. Such are the vicissitudes of working in the oldest profession in the world.
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3/10
It's not for me (and not for most of people I guess)
B7prado30 September 2023
When I its description on Amazon Prime I was excited. A woman sex therapist losing control. Sex. Drama. Rated for 18+. That's an amazing thing. But I'm totally disappointed.

I just didn't rate it with 1 due to the photography and (a little bit) 'cause feel sorry.

It's a regular story. Its sad. I feel pity 'cause the woman life is ruined. But it's a terrible movie. It has no point to be made. There's nothing interesting in the movie. Nothing at all.

The sex scenes are dumb, slow, cold. The drama parts are so boring. The film ends on the same way it begins: lost!

Ok the director wanted us to feel as depressed as the characters but at least it could have more sensual stories to warm it up.
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10/10
One of the most sensible movies ever. A deep dive into emotions.
felix9-546-56963916 September 2015
This is my first review. When I saw the movie, I knew I had to write one.

I love the movie. It is one of a kind.

I like the subject. The movie uses as a subject a profession that I have never heard of. It is a controversial profession and the movie displays it in a very professional and well researched almost neutral way. So we are of to a good start.

I was enthralled by the neutrality of the movie. You watch it and it feels as though you are actually watching the scenes live. You are standing somewhere in the corner of the room and are surveying the scene. It is fascinating how this movie is able to overcome the wall between itself and the viewer. The realism of the scenes is just fascinating. I suppose this is due to the great acting and the camera work. But I could not pinpoint it anywhere. The pieces just seem to fit together in this one.

To avoid spoilers I will not go into detail. I hope you get a chance to watch this movie and enjoy it as much as I did.
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