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"The sweetest spirit under this roof is gone, and I'm weeping myself."
leonardbast191016 October 2012
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Death has visited Downton Abbey before. Handsome Turkish diplomats, wounded soldier-footmen, and selfless fiancées have met their ends in Downton's lavish bedchambers. We have watched hard scenes before, most recently Sir Anthony's abandonment of Lady Edith at the altar and housemaid Ethel's abandonment of her little boy to his execrable grandparents. We have worried before, over the health of Mrs. Hughes and the fate of Mr. Bates. But nothing, absolutely nothing, has prepared us for the unexpected, utterly heartrending death of much-loved Lady Sybil, the event that overshadows all other developments in episode five.

As with real grief, those mundane developments do not seem important now: the tangled web of lust amongst footmen and kitchen maids, Edith's incipient career as a newspaper columnist, the departure of the sanctimonious Mrs. Bird and her replacement by Ethel in Isobel's household, even Anna's discovery of evidence that may finally secure her husband's release. None of it matters. The most beautiful, the most unconventional, the most progressive, the most generous, the most soft-spoken, and the most courageous of the Crawley daughters has died, her life taken at a moment which should have been joyous: the birth of her and Tom's baby.

To make a horrible turn of events even more horrible, her death was preventable. Dr. Clarkson, the local doctor, long a family retainer, suspects trouble and does all he can to advocate for a caesarian delivery in the village hospital. Robert overrules him, claiming that Clarkson has been wrong too many times before. The earl has brought in a posh physician from London, for no other apparent reason than to add a certain cachet to the proceedings, much as he brought in the Archbishop of Canterbury, in place of the local vicar, to wed Mary and Matthew. Dr. Clarkson, it should be noted, has been right more often than wrong in dealing with Downton's illnesses and injuries, erring significantly only in the instance of Matthew's paralysis. His advice is ignored. Aristocratic snobbery wins the day. Sybil dies, leaving behind an inconsolable family that includes not least her devastated husband and her newly born daughter.

The deathbed scene is magnificently written and acted, played in a manner that transcends the conventional and less realistic deathbed scenes we have witnessed earlier in the series. Sybil (the beautiful and talented Jessica Brown Findlay—oh, how you will be missed) does not go gently into that good night, nor does her distraught family allow her to; they beg, fight, plead for her life. It is a frantic, panicked moment, one where events take control of the participants, a scene of total helplessness in the face of fate. The agonies of Tom and Cora go beyond terror and despair, and we, as viewers, are made to feel every gut-wrenching convulsion along with them. It is nearly unbearable.

Grief throws all Downton off its course. We watch characters we have come to know and care about deal in varied ways with the shock and sadness that we, as viewers, are also feeling. Edith tries to draw closer to Mary, whose response is startlingly cold. Matthew carries on with business, causing Mary offense. Thomas breaks into tears and, for a moment, we understand that a man we usually don't like, is, like all of us, a human being and, moreover, a human being who every day of his life must face an incredible burden of loneliness and hurt. We see Cora begin to draw into herself, relegating Robert to sleep in his dressing room and blaming him for the tragedy. The blame is not misplaced. Robert has become a disappointment, a hidebound incompetent, a man trapped by the conservatism of his own thinking. What in him once seemed honorable now seems passively destructive.

Most of all, we see Maggie Smith as Violet, the Dowager Countess of Grantham. Clad in deep black mourning, she enters Downton, aged, weary, leaning on her stick. She speaks to Carson, steadies herself, walks away from the camera, across the grand hall, an embodiment of sorrow, and on her shoulders she carries the grief that we also feel. Then she pauses, lifts her veil, straightens herself, and enters the drawing room to face what she must, as she always has. Life goes on, changing and changeless, at Downton Abbey.

Coda: ITV and the cast and crew of Downton are to be commended for the complete silence that concealed Sybil's death, the leaking of which would have constituted the greatest spoiler of our age. The problem now is, for reasons that have never been made clear and that would doubtless make absolutely no sense whatsoever if they were revealed, PBS in the United States has chosen not to broadcast season three until January 2013! Can anyone seriously think that, three months from now, every American viewer will not have learned that Lady Sybil dies in childbirth? How on earth does anyone expect this spoiler not to ruin the viewing experience for the American audience? In a time of instantaneous communication, there is no excuse for this situation. Whoever's greed or incompetence is to blame, it is regretful and shameful.
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10/10
Impeccable Acting; Painfully Spectacular
av200923 September 2021
This episode left me in a puddle of tears. The impeccable acting was painfully spectacular, and it made me feel as if I were in the halls of Downton Abbey, experiencing the strong emotions as the characters in the show.
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10/10
Tragedy Strikes Downton
jpismyname26 December 2017
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I actually saw a spoiler before watching Season 1 that Lady Sybil will die of the Spanish Flu. No, it was Lavinia Swire who passed away so, of course, I was sad for Lavinia but relieved when Sybil did not even get sick. I must have read the spoiler wrong! But no, I was shocked because the spoiler was half true.

When you think you've seen the worst...sweet Lavinia dying with her heart broken, William dying minutes after marrying Daisy, the war, and lately Lady Edith's runaway groom, Bates suffering in prison, Ethel giving away her son, Mrs. Hughes' sickness. But no. Nothing is as tragic as kind-hearted Sybil's sudden demise. The most beautiful flower in Downton got picked first.

Watching Sybil dying in pain is very distressing. Watching her demise brings back bad memories. The actors all did a perfect job. The emotions, the body language...it felt like they were not even acting at all. It all felt true.

I forgot what else happened in this episode.

This is definitely the saddest, most distressing scene I've ever watched in any series or movie. I think it's because I actually cared for the characters and I was really absorbed.
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10/10
Life begins as one ends.
mark.waltz7 February 2021
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Keep the kleenex handy for the most shocking episode of the series, not quite unexpected, but dramatically gripping in a way which could have the viewer shaking in grief, even in fiction. But that's late in the episode as we get more detail on Bates' plight as plots against him in prison are revealed even as Anna discovers more evidence that could free him. Mrs. Byrd decides that she's had enough resulting in an "It's her or me" scenario that leads to a nearly perfect conclusion of this Widow Corney like character. Issues with Daisy and new kitchen maid Ivy over Daisy's jealousy add humor to the kitchen scenes.

But the dramatic situation concerning Sybil is what keeps this episode gripping with the family and staff in desperate worry as her condition gets worse. The situation between Dr. Clarkson and a visiting aristocratic doctor shows conflicts within the medical profession which turns Sybil into a martyr for science and adds to the tragedy as it creates unnecessary anxiety. This is the episode where Tom Branson really becomes a permanent member of the family, even if it does seem by default. At least it's sincere from the Grantham end and really adds humanity towards the family. Everyone is superb in this episode which really shows the light going out in the family that shows the grief in everyone as they come to grips barely with the tragedy.

Jessica Brown Findlay played the role of Sybil with tenderness and feistiness yet never really got meaty material up until this episode that gets to show her fighting. Back when this first aired, nobody expected this at all, and when other tragedies occured in the series, they weren't nearly as powerful. The scene of Mary and Edith coming to terms with their sisters death really shows them both at their most human, pragmatic but at least temporarily brought together. This is a turning point in the series from which there is no return. Without words walking into the room in the final scene, Maggie Smith expresses everything about her character's heart that we've suspected all along.
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10/10
Mr. Know It All Meets Mr. Pompous
Hitchcoc10 August 2020
This is one of the most memorable hours of television. As women's rights become an issue, a couple men argue about a life or death situation. A third man who knows what he is doing is trumped by their titles. Sibyl is going to give birth, but she seems in significant distress. Robert calls in an esteemed specialist, pushing aside the family doctor. The results are horrible. In another significant development, Anna has uncovered evidence of Bates's innocence but must get a hostile woman to testify. Two men, a guard and a prisoner, seem out to get Bates and are orchestrating his destruction.
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10/10
Most emotional episode yet
pandora-3218215 December 2021
Been binge watching this since season 1 and this episode totally broke my heart. Poor Sybil's life in the hands of 2 doctors too busy ego measuring. Absolute class acting as usual and a real tear jerker at that!
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10/10
One of the Toughest Episodes of the Series to Watch
spasek12 November 2023
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Even after the 5th time watching this episode, it doesn't get any easier. There are those moments in television that leave a mark and are never forgotten. This is one of those.

Lady Sybil is on the verge of giving birth to her baby. Tom, of course, is an anxiously worried father. However, the medical decisions rest with Robert, who decides to bring in Dr. Tapsell to take charge. Robert remembers Dr. Clarkson's misdiagnosis of Matthew--something that's actually absurd, given the time period and the delicate nature of spinal injuries. While his intentions are good, Robert creates a problematic situation in which both doctors, who are present, are at odds when Sybil begins to show symptoms of eclampsia. Dr. Clarkson quickly diagnoses Sybil, but Dr. Tapsell insists that Clarkson is wrong, which sets in motion a back-and-forth situation in which Robert and even Tom are forced to make a decision.

Unfortunately, this was a time period when such decisions were made by men, and it didn't matter if you were of high class or not, as those decisions were often wrought with stupidity and sheer ignorance. You'll note that Cora has virtually no say in the matter, despite siding with Dr. Clarkson and wanting to take Sybil to the hospital.

Both Robert's and Tom's decisions would seal Sybil's fate when it becomes apparent that Dr. Clarkson was right, and the family, all gathered around Sybil's bed, can do nothing but helplessly as she convulses and dies, leaving Tom and Cora sobbing.

Of course, Mary in many ways, has more masculine qualities than feminine ones, and one must really question where her absolute loyalties lie, namely with her father. Matthew tries to convince Murray that Downton needs to undergo some serious changes in order to stay financially viable. Mary is outraged, and why shouldn't she be? She got Matthew's money, after throwing one tantrum after another and ignoring the fact that Matthew is actually now a co-owner of Downton, who has every right to do what he can to try and save it. And this is something the Robert, himself, will also forget in the coming episodes.

Mary is my least favorite of the Crawley sisters. She's vain, immature, spoiled, and a virtual ice queen. Having said that, Michelle Dockery plays her to absolute perfection!

We also get a tender moment with Barrow who breaks down in tears upon hearing about Sybil, stating that she was one of the few people in the world who treated him nicely.

This is simply an unforgettable episode with continued epic performances all the way around.
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10/10
Exceptional !
honegm1 October 2023
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Impeccable acting that was easily observed from the characters after the rise of a conflict between the two doctors. It also seemed who was at right from the beginning, but again how would the family knew.

Seeing each character mourn for the loss of the sweetest soul of the house and they're weeping was definitely something that was needed to be seen.

Oh, and wow! Never would have guessed that Thomas could become sentimental over someone from the family but it feels so good to see that side of him.

Probably the scene where everyone was at shock while Cora and Tom are holding Sybil was the highlight of the episode, definitely one of the most important episodes of the series.
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10/10
So emotional, but acting is a masterpiece
Lady Sybil has been laid to rest and Downton Abbey will never be the same. The family's grief and mourning is very acute, especially by her husband Tom Branson whose future there seems uncertain. The baby must be christened and Tom is determined to have her baptized in his own faith. Nourishing our bodies and souls are key themes in episode 5 tonight. Food and religion. Two popular topics often debated but never agreed upon. We see food preparation and its importance in stature through housekeeper Ethel's desire to improve herself and impress her employer and the ladies at Downton when she makes a fine meal for luncheon and surprises them all. She takes a risk and is rewarded until Lord Grantham imposes his unyielding traditional values while attempting to banish his family from the house because of Ethel's tainted past. I love the reaction by the Dowager Countess when he uses the "B" word to shame Ethel and Mrs. Crawley for inviting the ladies to lunch. Priceless! Food is also an important plot axis in Mr. Bates' fate too. The newly discovered fact of poisoned pie that his wife baked for herself that her neighbor Mrs. Bartlett mentions might set him free. And, Daisy the assistant cook who thinks she will spend her whole life in the preparation of food may have another option when her father-in-law offers her his tenancy at the farm including equipment and money. She would be an heiress of sorts - not on the scale of the Downton ladies - but still quite a step up from kitchen duties and a life in service. The death of Lady Sybil was a deep blow to the series and I was concerned about how they could move past it. She was such a sweet character and so admired. Only the good die young.
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Downton Abbey Episode #5
dalydj-918-25517514 October 2012
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The doctor comes to Downton to check in on Sybill and how she is feeling which seems to be fine. Whenever something happens upstairs downstairs must have their talk about it. Daisy seems to be very cruel to her assistant. Sybil tells Mary that the baby is to be Christian but she cannot make it back to Ireland so this baby might not be. Anna goes to visit Bates and he now has his theories about who might have killed his ex in order to save his life. Lady Crawley still believes that she can change Ethel's life. Mary and Thomas go out on a walk to talk about everything happening at the moment. After dinner Anna wants to talk to Robert and at the same time Thomas talks to the visitor about his abilities to have a family with Mary. Edith after her newspaper statement last week gets a job to write for a newspaper weekly even though her father does not allow it like usual. Mrs. Bird has now left because she did not want to work near Ethel. The doctor calls the whole family in because he thinks she is having some problems with the birth. Ethel trying to cook ends up burning the dessert but cannot really do anything about it. Carson finds out about Ethel and does not like the idea. Doctors seem to fight over what is best for Sybil but they all must ask Thomas what he thinks is best for her birth. Sybil then has a baby girl and everyone lives to tell the tale. O'Brien then sticks her neck in check how Thomas is treating the new staff which seems to be too nice even for him. Late into the night Sybil starts to lose it, everyone looks on as she cannot be helped going through all this pain. As she reaches the point of no return everyone notices that this new baby is without a mother because Sybil has died. Downstairs are told about Sybil's death and even Thomas finds it hard to accept. The day of the funeral Anna talks to someone from the prison about Bates's case. Mary walks in on Thomas making a deal for the house but stops it straight away because of the mood everyone is feeling today. This death has even made Violet emotional which is the first time I've seen her like this. Great episode with the death of Sybil surprising and heartbreaking for the character of Sybil being on of my favourites.

EPISODE GRADE: B+ (MVP: Elizabeth McGovern)
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