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7/10
Intrigues sympathy, but not much empathy.
roytien200625 November 2009
Let me start by saying I like this movie. Despite the small budget, this is a well written, well directed and beautifully acted movie. Can't quite get the idea of black-and-white photography, but it's properly executed giving a realistic image of the industrialized city of Kaohsiung.

This movie also reminds us other Taiwanese films made by Hou Hsiao-Hsien and Edward Yang. Like them, the director told a true story, and I'm sure many viewers had shed their tears for the sad experiences that the loving father and daughter had gone through. However, unlike Hou or Yang's work, this story is more based on a unique and somewhat ridiculous event. Despite true and sad, it's hard to give us more to think about other than feeling sympathetic.

This is the director's debut film. He's not yet Hou or Yang, but we have good reasons to believe that there is a lot we could expect from his future work.
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8/10
A Nutshell Review: Not Without You
DICK STEEL30 December 2009
A man in despair walks down a lonely road, only for a watering truck to creep up behind him while spraying its contents on the roadside, drive by and soaking the man despite having plenty of room to avoid doing so. In some ways this simple scene highlighted the plight that the downtrodden face from society, or from people with the ability to show a little kindness or assistance - that it's easy to kick sand into others when their chips are down, or just plainly don't give two hoots about others.

This black-and-white Taiwanese film by Leon Dai, which walked away with major victories at the recent Golden Horse Awards, tells the simple story based on a true-life incident, where a man took his daughter and perched themselves precariously at the edge of an overhead bridge over major road traffic, threatening to jump off because they've been given the short end of the stick from society time and again.

Chen Wen-Pin and Chao Yo-Hsuan play the father Li Wu-Hsiung and 7 year old daughter Yu-Ting / Mei in very convincing terms, being the broken family that they are with Wu- Hsiung not even being the legal guardian of his child because she was born out of wedlock, with his "wife" walking out on them, and Wu-Hsiung not even knowing that she was already married then. It is these complications in his family setup, that they somehow slipped through the cracks of society and its welfare system, whose safety nets don't offer much reprieve when he's found out to be illegally living in an abandoned warehouse with his daughter, though happy in their makeshift home.

Much of the initial scenes highlights their living conditions and the odd, high-risk job that Wu-Hsiung undertakes to put food on the table, and this gets down at a leisurely pace to evoke sympathies for the audience to their plight, making one wonder just how things deteriorated into attempted suicide. The other bulk of the movie focused on how any bureaucratic system can fail those who somehow find themselves outside of the system, being treated as a no-good problem that refuses to go away. In such cases the easiest way to wriggle out from, is to push the problem to some other folks for them to take it on.

I suppose anyone who has dealt with bureaucracy would have faced this "taichi" (or pushing hands) in one form and one place or another, either having legislation thrown at your face, or just faced with impassable red tape. With the law being cold and justice being blind, if we were to put ourselves into Wu-Hsiung's shoes, we can imagine the frustration at how folks just refuse to think out of the box, or discard that uncaring hat (that it's just a job) for a moment, and to come up with real, from the bottom of the heart, solutions, than to pay cheap, lip service with a sense of relief that the issue is now passed along. The film's other message directs at our uncaring attitude that we are prone to exhibit - that if there's nothing in it for me, then it's not worthwhile investing effort in.

But the film is also more than that, and the story by Chen Wen-pin and Leon Dai also allowed for the capture of really harsh scenery from the port city of Kaoshiung. Running at a breezy 85 minutes, it captured enough to layer the story, without a minute going overboard with its art-house tendencies. What I also enjoyed here is the friendship between Wu-Hsiung and A- Tsai, the latter who has stood by his friend for many years, offering him as best as an advice anyone could give, and going out of his way to assist in ways that are way, way better than those in the system and with the know-how could.

The more interesting observation however, as far as the local scene is concerned, is how this film finally made it to our shores here, with its highly mashed Taiwanese Mandarin, Hokkien and Hakka dialogue completely intact, without a single snip, including all the "Kans" (subtitled as "F*ck" intact as well, without blurring / blacking it out). Word on the street was that this may not have been screened here due to its language, but the major victories at the recent Golden Horse Awards where it also won Best Picture, had likely boosted it chances and warranted a review.

Furthermore, this film is rated PG, compared to the last Taiwanese film Cape No 7 (NC16) for language, though the latter film had expected broad-based appeal and had vulgarities which had to be crudely snipped off. Perhaps we may be seeing a relaxation of the rules for award winning art-house films, bestowed upon with a lower rating despite some elements which may have given this something higher than a PG. But no matter the case, if a Taiwanese film can be screened with its language intact, then I am still crossing my fingers one day, in my lifetime, that Hong Kong, Cantonese films be screened intact as well. It's a baby step that I hope can turn into a giant leap in due course.
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10/10
Powerless Love
kizs2345829 November 2009
At the first glance, it's a movie about a father's love to his daughter; however, the director and writers also depict the fleshed face of the government and law. The black and white scenes for me is just the right type for the story: you can see the motion under a somewhat gentler texture; nevertheless, under the softened scenes is a strong emotional pulse, just as behind the weak protest, there is strong love, and behind the super-facial smile, the officers are actually care nothing about those who voted for them. This movie, all in all, projects the true society in Taiwan, and I highly recommend it to movie-goers.
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5/10
Chinese translation
fablesofthereconstru-119 December 2009
Warning: Spoilers
Not for no reason is "No puedo vivir sin ti" photographed in black and white. A life spent in abject poverty certainly can become a life without color, without beauty. Chang Yu-Tang is an unskilled laborer who dives into the ocean with faulty equipment because he has no choice. There's a young daughter to take care of, so he makes boat repairs with an old generator that could potentially, and almost does, kill him. While his uncle sleeps, the air compressor falters, but Mei, whom the father can see as a silhouette from beneath the surface, senses the imminent danger, therefore she rouses their benefactor from his nap and averts a tragedy in the making. She protects him. Tang doesn't deserve her. Mei should have decent shelter, should be in school, and in the absence of having fit parents, should at least have a fit father. Tang tries. Throughout the course of "No puedo vivir sin ti", Tang shuttles back and forth between his native Kaohsiung province and the big city in his futile attempts to enroll Mei in school. But the bureaucrats won't let him; they insist that the girl belongs to her birth mother, even though this supposed guardian hadn't seen Mei or Tang in years. The seven-year-old girl lives with her father in an abandoned warehouse by the sea. The moviegoer sympathizes with the father's frustration, as these pencil pushes can plainly see how they overmatch this borderline homeless man, disguising their contempt with the bald-faced assertion that rules and regulations need to be followed. The black and white photography gives Tang's plight a nightmare quality. Nobody listens to him, because nobody listens to a poor man. Finally, at wit's end, tired of such people pushing him around, Tang ascends to a bridge with Mei and threatens to jump. Back in the harbor, back under the water, it was only Mei who cared if her father lived or died; now he has a city and a television audience wondering about his fate. By dragging Mei into his fatalistic sphere, however, he loses the audience's sympathy.

"No puedo vivir sin ti" seems derived from the neorealist tradition with its assemblage of real locations, non-professional actors, and especially, its humanist viewpoint. The filmmaker isn't a sadist who subjects his characters with relentlessly downbeat situations. He points his camera skyward, albeit a sky without its blue rendering is like a sky without optimism, the sky remains there for looking, for hoping. He points his camera at windmills; he points his camera at pear trees. Like Dorothy from "The Wizard of Oz"(the Victor Fleming film is featured briefly), Mei dreams of a better place, but not without her father. "No puedo vivir sin ti", as was the neorealist Italian films from the forties and fifties, lacks the ironic glamour you sometimes find in a studio film, where being poor sometimes seem like an adventure, and worse, fun. Being poverty-stricken may be a bleak proposition, but the filmmaker has room for some grace under the inherent desolation of indigence, as in the scene where the father and daughter eat some fruit they picked off the roadside trees. The fruit is sweet, too sweet, probably. In Vittorio DeSica's "Umberto D.", the maker of "Bicycle Thieves" reunited the old man and his dog, and yet, despite their joyful antics in the park, it was a bittersweet reunion, at best. Nothing had really changed. The old man still would be hard-pressed to look after his beloved pet. "No puedo vivir sin ti" ends similarly, but with a difference.

Although a foster home is no Oz, Mei is in school, and no doubt, enjoys better food and a real roof over her head. The action picks up two years after the incident at the bridge, and during this interim, nothing has changed for Tang, except his hair. When he locates Mei, the school authorities tell him that she's gone mute, which sets the film up for a reunion scene more befitting of a major studio movie than a low-budget one. The sentimental music betrays its previously gritty presentation with bathos. Nobody seems to remember that the father almost killed his daughter. This fact gets lost in the pretty piano balladry. The filmmaker seems more concerned with the father's needs than the daughter's needs. He manipulates the audience by rigging everything in his favor. Mei never gets to be happy. Here is a more appropriate coda: Chang sees his daughter from afar, well-adjusted and well-fed, talking with her schoolmates outside the school, then walks away, with peace of mind that his daughter is alright. That is the bittersweet ending which would ably compliment the film's formal strictures of neorealism.
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