La folle histoire d'amour de Simon Eskenazy (2009) Poster

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What "Chouchou" should have been...
ElMaruecan8216 June 2022
Warning: Spoilers
Jean-Jacques Zilbermann's "Man is a Woman" was not exactly what you'd call a box office hit but it was a nice little story full of colorful characters and a few shots here and there of good old Jewish humor. It also had a complex central protagonist in Simon, Antoine de Caunes as a Jewish homosexual and accomplished clarinetist whose efforts to keep out of touch with the family always bumped into the 'issue' of his homosexuality. Family could excuse his lifestyle but not that it deprived the Eskenazy lineage from an heir.

The film's centerpiece was the romance with a singer named Rosalie (Elza Zylberstein) and the cultural clash ensuing from the encounter with her Orthodox family, revealing the latent hypocrisy of the religious world etc etc. The film concluded on a rather lackluster note with a baby born from the marriage and an anticlimactic separation. It was just as if at the very last minute, Zilberman's inspiration dried out and nothing original or satisfying or funny (even in a cynical way) could close Simon's arc. And so I expected a lot from the sequel that came 11 years after. Maybe the director needed more perspective to come up with new ideas or maybe that was the time it'd take for Simon to triumph over his demons.

Speaking of Simon, he's aged gracefully; Antoine De Caunes is 56 but can pass as a man in his late forties. He's still smoking, still serene about things and his inclination toward younger men seems to indicate some Oedipan gaps the film doesn't really explore. Maybe he likes to be a mentor-figure or maybe he's amused by the immaturity of the youth... I guess I'm interested enough to question this. The film opens with a flirting scene with a young married man named Raphael (Micha Lescot), the boy doesn't reappear until an hour and to add to the confusion, the second scene shows Simon waking up with a young North African boy named Naim.

In fact this is the central relationship; Naim (Mehdi Dehbi) is not only a transvestite but a Muslim as well, not only does Dehbi steal the show through his performance but his character was a revelation. Now I can verbalize what was wrong with the film "Chouchou", the character played by Gad El Maleh was funny and heart-warming but he lacked depth. Gad was busy impersonating a woman, Dehbi finds the right note as a man struggling to be the woman he wants to be. Dehbi is so good Simon feels totally accessory.

There's a scene near the end where Naim questions his femininity and wonders whether he could pass a woman during a party or was he so vulgar he didn't fool anyone. Then, Simon and he look at their reflection on the mirror and looking at Naim's beauty as a woman, I was confused myself. That the film could achieve that and make me feel for a character who could be a walking cliché was impressive. And speaking of "Chouchou", I was wondering why Gad El Maleh didn't reprise his role as the handsome cousin David.

Maybe he was reluctant to kiss a man or maybe he was busy making "Coco" a film about a rich Jewish guy celebrating a bar mitzvah and one that kept me kvetching all the time. Gad, as talented as he was, made a specialty of stretching one-note sketch characters into film protagonists, for disastrous results. "The Strange Romance of Simon Eskenazy" doesn't go for the laughs but tries at least to go for the emotions and it works... to a certain point.

For all its good intentions, the film suffers from a tedious and unfocused script that makes you constantly wonder "where is this going?". The original, despite dealing with an interesting subject: homosexuality and its difficult recognition among the skeptical and hardened families, kind of lost its way in the romance but it did so for the sake of funny and meaningful interactions. The second opts for the meaningfulness but without that little edge, that extra push of Jewish humor, it falls into sappy sentimentalism more than once. There's no conflict whatsoever with Rosalie, no problem with the American born son Yankele.

The film tries to explores Simon's complicated relationship with his mother Bella (Judith Magre) who must be taken care after an accident. While not the prototypical Jewish mother, she's still unbearable for her son who'd rather go sleep at his frtiend's house, played by Catherine Hiegel who was Rosalie's mother in the first film. There are some good and heart-warming moments, I wasn't too surprised by the way Naim became the catalysis of Simon's reconciliation with the mother, but there was something too convenient in the way they made her die after she and her son came to terms. Does everything have to be so neat?

Overall, I liked the way the film brought again all the element of the Yiddish culture and the music always plays a good role. De Caunes is serene and nonchalant and I guess it's the right tone, he really played a character worthy of a trilogy but it's like Zilberman thought of a totally original film and then decided to insert it in Simon's universe as an afterthough. And maybe I'm in a minority but I had a feeling that the film tried too much to be one of these hymn for fraternal love between Jews and Arabs to better contradict the reality of the world. It's true there are common roots between the communities but with the Sefaradic community.

Also I found the profainity a tad overused by Naim, I'm an Arab speaker and some words he chose to insult Simon were beneath him, one wouldn't say them to someone he loves... but Simon doesn't care anyway, and he's always with these sad eyes and amused little smile as if he was embodying in his face the bittersweet clarinet leitmotif. I can accept that.
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You might even want to make love to a.......
arizona-philm-phan22 July 2011
.....Clarinet! Well, go on....at least consider it. Believe me....it ain't that "Hard" to do (***see below)

ALTERNATE TITLE FOR THIS REVIEW: You have NEVER met a Boy?...Girl?...Boy?....like this one! WHY, you may ask? Well, because He's?...She's?...He's?...(oh, I give up trying to decide)...just the GREATEST EVER! And to top that off, I've now found my new Boyfriend?...Girlfriend?...Boyfriend?...(#*$*&*...cuss...cuss).

A CAST OF CHARACTERS (by order of importance, naturally):

  • The CLARINET - (plays Himself) ---- And not just any Clarinet....BUT one of the sweetest sounding...playful...sexually arousing woodwinds you are ever likely to meet (er, I mean hear).


  • Simon Eskenazy (Our Guy) - (played by: Antoine de Caunes) ---- The adorable(yes, he really is) Male Lead....and Clarinetist Extraordinaire! This is a guy who says so much....by saying so little. A guy who seems to have experienced it ALL---sexual partner-wise. Believe me, you're going to wind up Envying this fellow....to the MAX.


  • Naim (or is it Habiba?...or perhaps Angela?) - (also the reason for the Envy) - (played by: Mehdi Dehbi) ---- A PHENOMENAL actor...who is the subject of all the Question Marks in my Alternate Review Title, up above. Despite confusion over these 3 character names, there's really no doubt that this one is a "HE"....but just to be on the safe side, in future I'll only refer to him as "This Person". Anyway, you're going to fall in love with This Person. I know I did....and I said so above, did I not?


  • Mama "Bella" - (played by: Judith Magre) ---- The witty and smart Mother of our Male Lead---a sharp-tongued, but loving, woman who is never afraid to call her son out as a "Schmuck!" (but only when he needs it)


  • Rosalie - (played by: Elsa Zylberstein) ---- Our Guy's "Ex" (wife), as you've never, ever seen a gay man's Ex before. Possessed of a great singing voice, she is also phenomenal (with a little "p"). Watch her ultimate acceptance at film's end (check out her dancing partner). Although engaged, with a marriage ceremony only days away, do any of you out there also think she's, maybe, still in love with our Simon?


A COUPLE OF OBSERVATIONS:

  • This is one of the most colorfully-peopled films you are likely to see---almost breathtakingly so (what great costuming....and cinematography).


  • Amazing...and sad...that I found this film only available as a Region 2 version (requiring an All-Regions player). Peraps you'll be more lucky.


AND GENERAL THOUGHTS: Perhaps the Best Way to tell you a little more about this great film is just to list some of the wonderful, funny, sad (not many), emotion-grabbing events and moments which have made it so special for me (take a look at the film for yourself, and see where we may differ and agree on these):

  • And a Clarinetist always plays his best....with a guy in his bed


  • And NEVER get stuck in an elevator with your Mother


  • And sometimes having facial hair can result in....your getting to sleep in longer (try it and see)


  • And remember the specific amount: 4000 Euros (that's almost $5800 US)....BUT This Person is worth it


  • And beware of rude, white-bearded men, all in Black (they can really put a damper on things)


  • And you gotta love that the one who winds up snoring in a scene....turns out to be the one it is


  • And when you turn around....you never know who'll be there---perhaps someone in Black (smirk)


  • And...ye gods...Obama makes yet another appearance (see 1st "Aside", below)


  • And, lastly, if you think you've walked into "Fiddler on the Roof" by mistake.....you haven't


TWO ASIDES:

  • All you Obama fans (and others, of course) are invited and encouraged to try another great little film. This time it's a Mediterranean Number---Italy's marvelous Love Triangle, entitled "Different From Whom" (check my review.....and don't forget your All-Regions DVD player, you'll need it).


  • A little Secret for some of you who've enjoyed this film: There was a 1998 "prequel" to this production (same Director and main Actors)---Titled, "Man Is A Woman"---Enjoy!


***No, no....you shouldn't have jumped to conclusions. What I meant, up top at the beginning, was: Listen to one "Playing"....WHILE you're making love. (Nasty minds, tsk...tsk)

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