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7/10
First Hit: Moments of delight with Ram Dass are mixed with Jamie Catto's own agenda.
michaeldoud28 September 2019
First Hit: Moments of delight with Ram Dass are mixed with Jamie Catto's own agenda.

Instead of producer and director Jamie Catto eliciting information about Ram Dass and his life, we get him doing this and also spending time sharing his own spiritual journey and points of view. It isn't that this is wrong; however, I came to see a film about Ram Dass, a man who has influenced so many of us baby boomers and others with his willingness to expand our understanding of life as it is.

Ram Dass (born Richard Alpert) found a yearning from within to better understand life as he and others were experiencing it. He had questions about what and why life, the way it was unfolding for him, was unsatisfactory. With these questions, he began a quest to better understand it all.

Meeting with Dr. Timothy Leary, he started taking various types of drugs, psilocybin and then LSD to expand his consciousness. But it wasn't until he met Neem Karoli Baba, a Hindu spiritual teacher in India that he called Maharaj-ji, did he find his guru and path. In Maharaj-ji he found loving acceptance and limitless love for who he was.

The film intersperses current time interview segments with Catto, with previously recorded film and video segments of Ram Dass teaching groups of people. These clips cover a broad spectrum of his life and help to make this story interesting.

Moments, where Catto shared his understanding of Dass's teachings looking for approval and pats on the back from Dass, got tiring. At one point Jamie outright told Ram that he thought of Dass as his father figure and it came across, to me, as needy and approval seeking.

The film did not spend as much time on Ram's hospice work, for which he's very well known and respected. But Dass did talk a little about it by telling a couple of stories, in video clips, of patients he worked with. He also spoke about the importance of embracing both the concept and actual death as it arrives at each of us.

It was in these segments along with a couple of other discussions that I fell into enjoying this film wholeheartedly. I've come to understand many of the same things that Dass has learned through my own meditation practices and readings, including his books "Being Here" and "Still Here."

Catto, as I previously indicated, spent too much time sharing his own teachings and understandings, as I came to see this film about Ram Dass.

Overall: Not quite the film it could have been, but there are genuinely out-loud enjoyable moments.
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9/10
Not perfect but beautiful in so many ways. Just like Ram Dass.
eaorak2 May 2020
I love Ram Dass to begin with, I've listened many of his old talks and watched the movie, Going Home as well. His humor, humbleness, his honesty about his own journey, openness about his own feelings and thoughts make you feel much closer to him and relate to as well. He is not preaching, as he says in the movie, he just tells his story like a close friend and a beautiful soul, so that we can see and discover the truth and the path to freedom in ourselves.

Although there a few things that would better not to take place in the movie, first being the producer's long talks that even outtalk Ram Dass most of the time and the clips that cause so much distraction that it becomes harder to concentrate on what Ram Dass is saying (that's why I've closed my eyes and just listened him most of the time), I still found the movie really beautiful and meditative.

I've just finished watching in the middle of the night in silence and it made me cry so much and I felt his presence in my heart. For me he was not a "perfect being" or a "saint" or a "guru", he was a beautiful human being who has gone through more or less the same journey and difficulties as all of us, has never played a role of a "guru" and has always been open about it with his humbleness and humor. I really love him and although I think the movie could have been better, I still loved it and would definitely recommend everyone to watch it.

The world has so much to learn from his love, compassion, beauty, humor and humbleness.

I'm glad for having the chance to know you Ram Dass.

Namaste.
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9/10
Peaceful & Amusing
fuzzdandy-online1 June 2021
This is a very easy and interesting watch. Contrary to some reviews here I don't think the director gets in the way at all. Ram Dass is quite frail at the time of filming and to get more out of him Director Jaime Catto needs to engage a bit. As soon as Ram Dass is talking the director backs off and lets us listen.
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10/10
Beautiful. Profound. And moving.
davidteoman25 May 2020
After seeing some other reviews of this film that I don't believe did it justice (based on my experience) I felt compelled to write this review.

Overall, I was coming to this film the way I would go to a dharma talk. To hear Dass share wisdom, and see some of him in the process. Didn't really know what to expect.

What I found left me very moved and at the end absolutely transfixed, and deeply in touch with my being and truth. One interaction in particular between Ram Dass and the film maker moved me so deeply that I could learn more of his teaching from the interaction than from the talks.

Other views are certainly valid. I felt the need to share because depending on the mindset and expectations you have going in, you may find this film speaking to you in a way the raw score would not suggest.

Blessings.
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10/10
Thank you!
luxinfinity17 October 2023
Some of us have no idea how important this documentary is for people like me. We, the weirdos who give up their comfortable life to embrace the unknown. We, the ones who can't stand a minute longer not knowing who we really are and what life is about. Life will teach you lessons no matter what you do and some lessons are so painful that sometimes only death seems the real way out. Ram Dass is not your usual guru, he had a life just like you and I. During his journey of self discovery, he had the courage to explore the effects of lsd on himself and others thus jeopardising his position as a respected psychology professor at Harvard University. I am Italian, born in 1967 in Italy and raised there. The first time I watched this documentary I thought - Ram Dass and Timothy Leary made history with their discoveries, why there's no mention of them in history books? -. I had to learn the names of war-oriented individuals from history books while those who truly made a huge positive impact on humanity by spreading their light and love had been deliberately left out by main stream media and education. Dear Jamie, thank you for opening my eyes and heart to the truth. I have already watched this documentary several times as a reminder that there's more to life that meets the eye. The first time I watched it, I was feeling suicidal due to a sudden illness which has disabled me and the message in the documentary is so powerful that it gave me the courage and faith to keep on living but most importantly: I am not alone!
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10/10
So Beautiful, So Warming, So Lucid.
mmmovieenthusiast6 October 2020
Captures the essence of Ram Dass perfectly! This movie is a vibe. Love
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10/10
Captured the Essense of Ram Dass beautifully!
eleana-246714 December 2023
I do not agree with reviewers that felt Jamie Catto was speaking too much or was egoic at all. I felt he asked good questions, beared his soul at around the 1hr 7 min point in thinking about losing Ram Dass, and from that point onward, it was the purest concentrated dose of Ram Dass's pure wisdom...absolutely beautiful, inspiring, heart opening, ego reducing, and reminding us to continue letting go and to keep evolving. Thank you Jamie Catto for this magnificent film that I have now watched for the 3rd time and still frantically writting notes on!! I love Ram Dass. I love this film. And love to you Jamie Catto!
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6/10
Mediocre documentary about western guru
tukkek6 March 2021
Not a bad movie but not much more than a retreading of all those "vaguely eastern" philosophies that any westerner living (or becoming alive) after the New Age movement of the 70s west has heard before. Again, it's not a bad thing - sometimes you need to hear those things again and sometimes there's a hidden gem that particularly resonates with you.

Perhaps the director should have decided to lean more into making either a documentary of eastern philosophies or a love-letter to Ram Dass. The middle-of-the-road approach doesn't particularly deliver in either aspect, seems superficial and may, in fact, be a detriment to the man himself, even though the guy manages to exude a fair amount of charm and charisma despite the movie's shortcomings.
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7/10
Not bad
christiam-519761 December 2022
Warning: Spoilers
Not too bad although sometimes it felt like it kept repeating similar ideas over the movie. The things talks about are interesting althought sometimes repitive. It's not a mindblowing documentary but definitely worth watching. If you're a spiritual person you will definitely like this movie althought its not groundbreaking. It talks about ego and how we try to be so many things but the key is in "just being" and not putting on a mask to make others love us but to take off the mask and the ones who truly love us will stay and the ones who dont will go away . Watch this if you have some free time and you're spiritual.
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2/10
The irony is too strong
tartman31 March 2020
While an interesting subject, the director/interviewer (Catto) seemed more interested in inserting himself into the narrative of Ram Dass instead of providing an insightful dive into Ram Dass' teachings.

The hypocrisy of Catto's ever present ego on film felt at odds with the true spiritual teachings of Ram Dass. Nevermind that 50% of this film was random stock footage hap-hazardly laid over narration.

Stock footage is an ok tool, but when it has nothing to do what's shown on screen it leaves the audience wondering if they're watching a real movie or an amateur's college term project.
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4/10
Filmmaker's Ego Trip and a Lost Opportunity
broadcastjones14 February 2020
I feel two ways about this film

The first, I was happy for the opportunity to get a quick glimpse in to how Ram Dass spent his last days in Maui, I liked seeing his gnarled hand and wheel chair because I realized the pain he must have been in constantly and how he overcame that.

However I feel this film was the producer's ego trip, I spent many moments wondering who this person was sitting with Ram Dass telling him that his (filmmaker's) theories were "much more advanced" than what Ram Dass was saying. I found the filmmaker to be a cringe worthy hanger-on type. He was not identified and it was perplexing as to what the hell he was doing there in the middle of the film. And yet Ram Dass saw him and verbalized to him that he could not see himself for who he truly is, which was beautiful. Compassion.

I saw the clips of Ram Dass were edited so he always spoke immediately and clearly, I would have preferred to see him in his true state, long silences and struggling with the aftermath of his stroke but still shining through. His humility was lost in this film in this way, as well as his real point.

I found myself caught up in the visual film clips played while Ram Dass's old lectures were played, to the point that it distracted away from what he was saying.

This film was not what I had hoped and I feel that it is not an accurate legacy of Ram Dass's life and that one would be better served listening to his lectures on youtube, or where ever they can find.

I feel a void left because there does not seem to be anyone as eloquent as him to carry on his legacy. He is not gone, true, but his work touched so many people and the real loss is we do not have the authentic human being that was himself here now.
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5/10
Started out nice... but then lost the plot
lobstersurreal27 April 2020
Started out nice....but then lost the plot.

The introduction was stellar but then slowly devolved into being odiously preachy. Nothing was innovative- and understandably so- as the entire narration has been culled from his talks, but I was more interested in knowing Ram Dass as a person, his life story etc than being sermonized.

I am familiar with his life, but it was just another reinterpretation and reformulation of his materials from his talks from YouTube channel. It was very artistic at times, but it doesn't depict Richard Alpert's story, and loses the flow in mid-stream.

It is nothing more than the director's adaptation and not Richard's bio. Missed potential.
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