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9/10
A heartbreaking and heartwarming tale that weaves the past and the present together beautifully.
elin-alneberg-157-5615814 December 2015
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Previously I have seen this episode and been annoyed that the actors who play young Lorelai and Christopher aren't enough like the adult versions. But now I think that the actors might as well have been played by two puppets, because that is not the point. The point is to see how the characters are forever linked to their own history, in good ways and in bad ones.

Take Lorelai for example. It is sweet how she rushes off to help Rory who is desperate, but her storyline is infinitely deepened by the sight of a 16 year old Lorelai, sitting lonely at the hospital and telling the nurse that she is all on her own.

Emily's younger self is not exactly an angel. She yells and complains and is even harsh when her young daughter is going into labor. But when she finds the letter, telling her that Lorelai has left them, I feel for her. Not just because of the sorrow in her eyes, but because we slowly get to know Emily through the series, and we how much she loves Lorelai despite their differences.

In the end their relationship is not perfect, but it is functioning and momentarily based on a sense of humour that is crucial in any relationship between two people who have little in common. Lorelai takes small steps towards her mother, this time through a DVD- player.

Today when I watched this episode for maybe the 10th time I realized something important: You haven't loved Gilmore Girls for real until you have cried over Emily's sorrow to lose her daughter.
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9/10
Emotional..
tknarido29 May 2020
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I just finished this episode, and I had to express how touching and tearjerking this episode was: seeing the flashbacks of Lorelai when she was delivering Rory, alone at the hospital; When Emily burst into tears after finding out that Lorelai had run away from home with Rory; and when Lorelai and Christopher saw Rory for the first time in the nursery.. I'm not a mother myself yet but I felt Lorelai, and I think it was very nice, accepting and mature of her to have handled that kind of situation with Christopher.

I love this show, that's why I'm not binging it that much, I want to take things slow, love every episode as much as I can.

Even though Lorelai and Rory aren't the perfect characters but they're still amazing, and they have the kind of mother-daughter relationship I've always wanted to have..
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10/10
My favorite episode
mockingdeath23 February 2019
This episode and Love and war and snow are two best episodes of the show. It has everything - excellent dialogues and plot/cute, witty Lorelai/cute, witty, younger Lorelai
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Girls Girls:Dear Emily and Richard
mrssweets30 January 2006
This episode has been by far one of the best during this third season. It was quite interesting to see the flashbacks to Lorelai's teenage years and to also see a younger version of Christopher. Since we have not really seen him much throughout the seasons of Gilmore Girls. Also Rorys reaction to being left alone in the hospital with her dads pregnant fiancée is hilarious. Lorelai also handled the Christopher/Sherry situation very well in this episode. It also showed how well she is coping with the realisation that Christopher has his own family ,and can no longer be there for her and Rory in a family retrospect. This episode was also interesting because we got to see Lorelai as she was before Rory was born,which was cool.
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10/10
Tearjerker... definitely going to rewatch
yeaglesart9 May 2021
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The moment when Lor and Christopher were standing in front of the class watching the new baby girl, tear bursted out my eyes. Probably the most I've cried in a television show. It made me think about my hard working single mother, how hard she's worked to bring me and my twin up, just like Lor, single mother, going through so much hardships but still manages to stay happy in the end. The storytelling is superb, without the depth of the character and the back and forth foreshadowing it wouldn't deliver so much emotion. Also forgot to mention the scene when Emily found out about Lor leaving, just heartbreaking.... This episode gave new character development to Lor and Emily and added so much depth and emotion to their characters. I also love how their relationship is getting better, and using the DVD player as a bondage. One of the best and most emotional episodes of Gilmore girls.
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9/10
"Here, Here!!!"
cooljazzjr0222 July 2021
Raincoats and Recipes will always be my favorite but this episode, in my opinion, is so good it runs a VERY close second.

Sure, Sherrys character can be annoying and the younger "counterparts" of Lorelai and Chris may not exactly match - but it's close enough that you can put that aside and be swept up in the events of the past and be re-energized back to current affairs with another pregnancy in Chris' life.

This one episode bonds the past to the present and enlightens you to a world of Lorelai's youth that, up till now, we had only imagined. Nostalgia at its finest!

Dear Richard and Emily.... A very apropos title for this episode as well.
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10/10
Perfect
sherylchilders8218 September 2023
Watching Gilmore Girls for the first time and loving the nostalgia of the early 2000s. Season 3 has really stepped up, and I understand why this show is so beloved. This episode really got me - it is perfectly executed. Normally full of wit and firing high wpm, the show slows this episode, appropriately, for the birth of Rory's half sister. We get to see a flashback of Rory's birth, interwoven with the present, revealing so much about Loralei and her relationship with her mother. Without words, we understand so much more, like how unselfish Loralei is, and how devoted her mother is to her underneath it all. We now understand completely the wounds of their relationship. Really a standout episode, punctuating a generally silly light hearted escape.
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8/10
So well done! Wish we had more flashbacks
ISmellSnow11 January 2021
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I love watching young Lorelai and I wish we got more of that. Sherry is being so crazy while in labor but it's a bit humorous. Lorelai helps Emily set up a DVD player and it's amazing. Luke and Nicole go on their first date.
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5/10
Another episode that made you hate Lorelai.
m-478263 July 2023
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Her mother had her faults, but on top of having a baby at sixteen. Leaving her parents, after putting them through the repercussions of her pregnancy all this time, was unbelievably selfish. And if that's even possible, teenage Lorelai was even more irritating than the adult version, the first time she was introduced in the episode. The parallel between Christopher's daughter and Rory's birth, was a nice touch. But I don't see what it added to the episode either. I thought it was boring and I hated the flashbacks. Also, the drama at the diner wasn't very interesting either. The only part I liked, was the end scene, between Lorelai and Emily trying to install the DVD player. At least it was a fun and touching conclusion.
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