"Grave" is not best BTVS season finale. But, it's also not the worst and it does caps off the season. It brings about the end of Dark Willow's rampage and finally starts the Scoobies down paths of healing. This is also the episode where Spike gets his soul back. The restoration of Spike's soul is the most lasting thing that comes out of season six. It's consequences will play out next season and go on to have a huge impact on "Angel" season five. You really shouldn't skip this episode.
"Grave" picks up right where "Two to Go" leaves off. Giles has arrived to help Buffy stop Willow. Xander, Jonathan, Andrew and Dawn are searching for a place to hide. And Spike's still fighting the demon trials in Africa. Giles has borrowed magic from a witch coven in Devon and is able to trap Willow. While he and Buffy discuss all the problems that have befallen the Scoobies since Giles went away, Willow escapes. She attacks Giles and sends a fire ball after Xander, Dawn and the Duo. Buffy rushes out to follow it. Willow sucks the magic from Giles, but he's dosed it so she can feel the emotions of everyone. In an effort to stop the pain in the world, she decides to bring about an apocalypse.
Meanwhile, Xander is feeling more useless than ever as he realizes that he has no idea where they can hide from Willow. Buffy arrives just in time to save them from the fireball, but she and Dawn fall into the crater it makes. The Duo runs off. Anya teleports over to Buffy and tells her that Giles is hurt, Willow's out to destroy the earth and no supernatural means can stop her. About that time mud creatures pop out of the walls of the crater and start attacking Buffy and Dawn. They have to work together to survive.
Xander, learning that Willow is out to end the world, goes looking for her. He finds her on a cliff, trying to channel energy through an evil monument. Instead of trying to fight Willow, he reminds her that in destroying the planet, she'll be killing him too. But even if she does wipe out mankind, he'll still love her. She's his best friend, she's always been his best friend and, if he has to die, then she's the only one that he wants to be beside. Willow crumples beneath his words. Crying and shaking, her magic drains away and she falls into Xander's arms sobbing. The world is saved. Meanwhile, Spike completes the demon trial and is rewarded with the restoration of his soul.
There's a lot to like about this episode. Xander and Willow have, arguably, the deepest bond in the Buffyverse. The two of them are each other's most loyal friend and supporter. They need each other. So, it's fitting that Xander should be the one person to talk Dark Willow down. Willow could hurt Giles and Dawn and Buffy and even plot to end the world. But, she couldn't kill Xander. It was his love that finally got through her dark shell of rage and despair. His yellow crayon speech and her slowly breaking down into sobs as he holds her is just one of the greatest scenes of the whole season.
I've heard people argue that Spike was trying to get his chip removed, but it seems pretty clear to me that he was always fighting for the restoration of his soul. (He even says as much in season seven's "Beneath Me" and "Angel" season five's "Destiny.") He didn't need the chip removed to fight Buffy. He could already hurt her, if that's what he wanted. It was all about getting his soul back. The "why?" part of his quest seems a little bit vaguer, though. His story changes as times goes on and I think there are several plausible explanations for his battle. Watching his plan play out over the last four episodes of the season, I don't think that Spike was trying to get re-ensouled because he felt it was the right thing to do. I think that he started out to prove something to Buffy and to himself. To take away the one thing that he felt was preventing her from really being with him. The chip had given him an excuse to be a good guy, but it wasn't enough for Buffy to really commit to him. Spike's still a demon. She needed him to have a soul if she was going to love him. So, being a proactive sort of guy, he went to get one. As his quest wore on, though, Spike's motivations seem to become clearer. He's now fighting for the soul out of guilt and repentance. He's no longer grumbling bitterly about, "Giving that b*cth what's coming to her." He's whispering that he wants to, "Give Buffy what she deserves." He thought that the chip had made him into a White Hat and still he'd tried to rape her. He no longer felt evil, but he couldn't be good. Spike wanted his soul back to ensure that he would never try and harm Buffy again. It was his apology to her and his own insurance that he really had changed.
On the down side, does Dawn always have to make everything about her? Buffy has nearly been raped, Willow's now the ultimate evil, Tara's dead, Giles is injured and the world's about to end. And all Dawn can think to do is whine that Buffy didn't tell her about Spike almost raping her and Giles being back in town? She's not worried about Buffy's feelings or what her sister must be going through or anything else. All Dawn ever focuses on it Dawn.
My favorite part of the episode: Giles hearing about all the troubles that the Scoobies have gotten into without him... And bursting out laughing.
"Grave" picks up right where "Two to Go" leaves off. Giles has arrived to help Buffy stop Willow. Xander, Jonathan, Andrew and Dawn are searching for a place to hide. And Spike's still fighting the demon trials in Africa. Giles has borrowed magic from a witch coven in Devon and is able to trap Willow. While he and Buffy discuss all the problems that have befallen the Scoobies since Giles went away, Willow escapes. She attacks Giles and sends a fire ball after Xander, Dawn and the Duo. Buffy rushes out to follow it. Willow sucks the magic from Giles, but he's dosed it so she can feel the emotions of everyone. In an effort to stop the pain in the world, she decides to bring about an apocalypse.
Meanwhile, Xander is feeling more useless than ever as he realizes that he has no idea where they can hide from Willow. Buffy arrives just in time to save them from the fireball, but she and Dawn fall into the crater it makes. The Duo runs off. Anya teleports over to Buffy and tells her that Giles is hurt, Willow's out to destroy the earth and no supernatural means can stop her. About that time mud creatures pop out of the walls of the crater and start attacking Buffy and Dawn. They have to work together to survive.
Xander, learning that Willow is out to end the world, goes looking for her. He finds her on a cliff, trying to channel energy through an evil monument. Instead of trying to fight Willow, he reminds her that in destroying the planet, she'll be killing him too. But even if she does wipe out mankind, he'll still love her. She's his best friend, she's always been his best friend and, if he has to die, then she's the only one that he wants to be beside. Willow crumples beneath his words. Crying and shaking, her magic drains away and she falls into Xander's arms sobbing. The world is saved. Meanwhile, Spike completes the demon trial and is rewarded with the restoration of his soul.
There's a lot to like about this episode. Xander and Willow have, arguably, the deepest bond in the Buffyverse. The two of them are each other's most loyal friend and supporter. They need each other. So, it's fitting that Xander should be the one person to talk Dark Willow down. Willow could hurt Giles and Dawn and Buffy and even plot to end the world. But, she couldn't kill Xander. It was his love that finally got through her dark shell of rage and despair. His yellow crayon speech and her slowly breaking down into sobs as he holds her is just one of the greatest scenes of the whole season.
I've heard people argue that Spike was trying to get his chip removed, but it seems pretty clear to me that he was always fighting for the restoration of his soul. (He even says as much in season seven's "Beneath Me" and "Angel" season five's "Destiny.") He didn't need the chip removed to fight Buffy. He could already hurt her, if that's what he wanted. It was all about getting his soul back. The "why?" part of his quest seems a little bit vaguer, though. His story changes as times goes on and I think there are several plausible explanations for his battle. Watching his plan play out over the last four episodes of the season, I don't think that Spike was trying to get re-ensouled because he felt it was the right thing to do. I think that he started out to prove something to Buffy and to himself. To take away the one thing that he felt was preventing her from really being with him. The chip had given him an excuse to be a good guy, but it wasn't enough for Buffy to really commit to him. Spike's still a demon. She needed him to have a soul if she was going to love him. So, being a proactive sort of guy, he went to get one. As his quest wore on, though, Spike's motivations seem to become clearer. He's now fighting for the soul out of guilt and repentance. He's no longer grumbling bitterly about, "Giving that b*cth what's coming to her." He's whispering that he wants to, "Give Buffy what she deserves." He thought that the chip had made him into a White Hat and still he'd tried to rape her. He no longer felt evil, but he couldn't be good. Spike wanted his soul back to ensure that he would never try and harm Buffy again. It was his apology to her and his own insurance that he really had changed.
On the down side, does Dawn always have to make everything about her? Buffy has nearly been raped, Willow's now the ultimate evil, Tara's dead, Giles is injured and the world's about to end. And all Dawn can think to do is whine that Buffy didn't tell her about Spike almost raping her and Giles being back in town? She's not worried about Buffy's feelings or what her sister must be going through or anything else. All Dawn ever focuses on it Dawn.
My favorite part of the episode: Giles hearing about all the troubles that the Scoobies have gotten into without him... And bursting out laughing.