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8/10
Both enjoyable and touching at the same time, 'Life Isn't All Ha Ha Hee Hee' is watchable from beginning to end...
Life Isn't All Ha Ha Hee Hee

Three thirty-something women, friends since childhood, are desperate to find their own happy endings, but wonder if they really are content when they eventually find them. Chila (Ayesha Dharker) couldn't have a better life ahead of her after marrying the Prince Charming of Chigwell, Deepak (Ace Bhatti), but are they really in love with each other, or did they only do what they thought they should do? Sunita (Meera Syal) is a seemingly perfect wife and mother, but her relationship with her husband Akaash (Sanjeev Bhaskar) lost its spark long ago. Tania (Laila Rouass) is a hard-nosed up-and-coming television filmmaker who refuses to be viewed as an Asian, but when she is asked to make a documentary about her friends and family, what she finds ends up uncovering some uncomfortable home truths about everyone concerned. These women may have to learn the hard way that "life isn't all ha ha hee hee".

Multiple threat Meera Syal has had a successful career as a comedienne over the last few years, which makes her foray into drama with 'Life Isn't All Ha Ha Hee Hee' all the more surprising. To be honest, I've grown exhausted with Syal's continual lampooning of Indian stereotypes in her hit show "Goodness Gracious Me", and while it's inoffensive, there's always a feeling that only a fraction of Syal's writing and acting talent is on display. In 2002, with the news that she was adapting her excellent novel 'Anita and Me' for the big screen, there came a promise that Syal would finally reveal to the world what lay beyond her grating Mrs. Kumar persona. Sadly, 'Anita and Me' was a deflated experience, with the balance of cheeriness and seriousness being bungled pretty badly by director Metin Hüseyin. Syal wasn't entirely to blame, as the short running time and family-friendly nature of the film undoubtedly played a part in forcing her to rip out large chunks of her award-winning book. For her latest project, though, Syal has been blessed with the luxury of a three-hour running time, and a skilled director (Andy De Emmony), who injects less style than was present in 'Anita and Me', but accomplishes far more than Hüseyin ever could.

On paper, and sometimes on screen too, 'Ha Ha Hee Hee' almost resembles an intentional follow-up to 'Anita and Me', not just in terms of the acting pedigree of the picture, but the storyline as well. Syal (co-writing with Abi Morgan, 'Sex Traffic') once again delights in displaying the quirks and charms of Indian culture, with the ethnicity of the characters adding a touch of spice to a straightforward dramedy. But at the same time, the focus of Syal's story (which, like 'Anita and Me', is loosely based on her own experiences) reminds us that Asian women are just like anybody else, without ever preaching it from the metaphorical rooftop. In fact, Syal's commentary on the state of "British Asian, Anglo-Indian or whatever they're calling us" relationships seems to be an inadvertent by-product of the dramatic can of worms she has opened. I'm sure many white women could relate to Chila, Tania and Sunita, and their respective plights will remain an interest for everybody else as well. 'Ha Ha Hee Hee' isn't all tears and gloom, however, as there's plenty of opportunity for Syal to implement her comedic writing skills. Despite it all, it's quite an entertaining piece of work, and little of the humour is forced the way it was in her previous adaptation. Both enjoyable and touching at the same time, 'Ha Ha Hee Hee' is watchable from beginning to end. You just couldn't say that about 'Anita and Me'.

There's also a tremendous amount of help from the performances, which are easily commendable. Once you get past the number of returning faces from 'Anita and Me', it becomes difficult to distinguish actor from character. The supporting performers do as they're told, but expectedly, it's the three stars of the production who carry the spirit of 'Ha Ha Hee Hee' along. Actress Laila Rouass (of "Footballers' Wives" fame) is faced with some pretty dastardly deeds that her character ends up doing, but instead of hate for Tania, Rouass manages to summon feelings of pity for her. As the maturest of the group, Sunita has slightly fewer problems going on in her life, but Syal makes the character just as memorable, infusing her with the actress's natural charm. Shockingly, it's not Syal herself who steals the show, but actress Ayesha Dharker. With wide eyes and an even wider smile, Dharker becomes every part the doting but neglected wife (a breakthrough role, I'm sure), and has her share of scene-stealing moments, especially during the third and final part of the series. It's a good thing, too, as Chila is in some ways more crucial to the plot than the other two women.

For all its virtues, 'Ha Ha Hee Hee' concludes a little predictably, and there's a feeling that Syal decided to play it safer than she wanted to. But it's still executed with a bittersweet smile by everybody, and it should prove difficult to not be saddened as farewells are bid to Sunita and the rest. As the optimistic Chila observes about life in general, 'Ha Ha Hee Hee' isn't really about the ending, but a million little surprises all of the way through. It's far from the best drama or comedy around, and is certainly not as noteworthy as the similar (albeit much less realistic) "Desperate Housewives", but it's nice to have relatable characters and situations presented on screen in a light enough way...innit?

~ 8/10 ~
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9/10
Second Meera Syal adaptation
tophered10 May 2005
The second novel by Meera Syal to be adapted for the screen I was eager to see if it would live up to the quality of Anita and Me. Judging by the first instalment it is sure to surpass it. The script is tight and the performances are faultless. This first episode made for uncomfortable viewing in some parts, Meera Syal in the bathroom is rather disturbing. Laila Rouass previously seen in Footballers Wives and Hollyoaks was a revelation. I really wasn't sure she would be able to cut it on screen with the likes of Syal but she more than held her own. In fact I would say hers was the finest performance. I would definitely recommend this to anyone.
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9/10
Great Adult family viewing
lambarker28 December 2006
Warning: Spoilers
This three parter is a lovely piece of work. The three main characters are portrayed realistically and they look like real people, not actresses. Sunita's transformation is realistic. The supporting cast were all great. I watched this with my adult kids and we all enjoyed it. We also think that the situations cross over to so many ethnic groups, but that the particular ones in this series were very well-done. Even the lighting in some of the house scenes, with a lot of gold and orange overtones, added to the atmosphere, and contrasted with the brightness and glare of the outer London world, like the hospital. The circular shot of the three characters just before the baby is grabbed by Deepak was a perfect set up.

It was also good that the problem of "cutting" was addressed, as well as communication in marriage. "What happened to us?" Sunita asked and the audience wants to yell, "Life!" I'd love to see more of these characters, and highly recommend this show to others.
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10/10
I absolutely love this show. I'm hooked
keplers-star18 May 2005
I absolutely love this show. I wasn't sure if I wanted to watch it, but I did and now I'm hooked. Fantastic acting and a great story. The characters are really brought to life. Writer, comedienne and actress Meera Syal navigates her characters through the emotional roller-coaster of the coming-of-middle-youth--the time when the real growing up is done, with her trademark wit and sensitivity. From the bitching at the celebration to the heavy embroidery and tears of a traditional Indian wedding, through infidelity, TV documentaries and betrayal, Syal regales the viewer with the strengths and limits of female friendship. Great Television! From the Guardian: "Syal plays Sunita, frittering her life away in a dismal job and lifeless marriage to Akaash (Sanjeev Bhaskar), while Ayesha Dharker plays Chila, considered by all to have hit the jackpot by bagging the "Prince Charming of Chigwell", Deepak (Ace Bhatti). Third friend Tania (Laila Rouass), a documentary producer, shoots a video of Chila and Deepak's wedding and is encouraged by her boss to use it for a film about the meaning of love in the Indian community. But when the film is premiered, the secrets revealed within it threaten to destroy the womens' relationships for good."
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10/10
Brilliant
mabelkooner11 July 2022
I was flicking through nextflix and saw this. So awesome I watched it all since 9pm last night and work today . Meera you were in the comedy with all you guys lol chakti phatai lol .I think we are the same age currently 53 but that was one of the best things i have seen since money heist. Well done too you all for highlighting big issues that are hopefully dying out. Xx.
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