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To Find My Son

  • TV Movie
  • 1980
  • Not Rated
  • 1h 40m
IMDb RATING
7.0/10
120
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To Find My Son (1980)
Drama

A young man wishes to adopt a problematical eight-year-old boy being kept in an institution. Simply because he is single, he has an uphill battle with the government bureaucracy and particul... Read allA young man wishes to adopt a problematical eight-year-old boy being kept in an institution. Simply because he is single, he has an uphill battle with the government bureaucracy and particularly with a power-hungry, administrator. After many delays, they deny his application. The... Read allA young man wishes to adopt a problematical eight-year-old boy being kept in an institution. Simply because he is single, he has an uphill battle with the government bureaucracy and particularly with a power-hungry, administrator. After many delays, they deny his application. Then he finds a way to turn the tables on them for the boy's own good.

  • Director
    • Delbert Mann
  • Writer
    • Sandor Stern
  • Stars
    • Richard Thomas
    • Molly Cheek
    • Julie Cobb
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  • IMDb RATING
    7.0/10
    120
    YOUR RATING
    • Director
      • Delbert Mann
    • Writer
      • Sandor Stern
    • Stars
      • Richard Thomas
      • Molly Cheek
      • Julie Cobb
    • 7User reviews
    • 1Critic review
  • See production info at IMDbPro
  • See production info at IMDbPro
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    Richard Thomas
    Richard Thomas
    • David Benjamin
    Molly Cheek
    Molly Cheek
    • Julie
    Julie Cobb
    Julie Cobb
    • Connie Marx
    Steve Kanaly
    Steve Kanaly
    • Arthur Gwen
    Allyn Ann McLerie
    Allyn Ann McLerie
    • Mrs. Braggs
    Justin Dana
    • Tommy
    Arthur Rosenberg
    Arthur Rosenberg
    • Fred Willis
    Ronald G. Joseph
    • Manny Garcia
    • (as Ronald Joseph)
    Royce Wallace
    • Nancy Grady
    Gene D. Jackson
    • Bobby Johnson
    Melva Blancett
    • Mrs. Ryan
    Francesca Jarvis
    Francesca Jarvis
    • Mrs. Benjamin
    Warner McKay
    • Mr. Benjamin
    Charles Benton
    • Dr. Holder
    Mary Mizell
    • Ida
    Robert Sola
    • Dr. Nelgrin
    • (as Bob Sola)
    Susan Donovan
    • Helen Shannon
    Brad Zinn
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    • Director
      • Delbert Mann
    • Writer
      • Sandor Stern
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    User reviews7

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    8/10

    A simply made and effective drama.

    I caught this recently on the Sony Movie Channel. It was one of those made-for-TV true stories about a single man's struggle to adopt a boy, and I probably wouldn't have watched it were it not that Richard Thomas was the star.

    Upon watching it I was pleasantly surprised that it managed to keep just the right side of sentimentality, which was rare for TV movies with kids in them at the time. Usually such outings feel patronisingly emotional, with far too much over-score implying you should feel something poignant at various points in the film - but actually they only manage to make you feel like vomiting.

    It tells the story of David Benjamin who volunteered at an adoption centre and befriended a young boy who had a speech impediment. When he asks if he could possibly foster the child, he is told that he would have more chance adopting him outright.

    What should be a simple task becomes a battle against bureaucracy. First they say they want the boy and all his siblings kept together, but what they later discover is that the real reason they don't want him to adopt is because he is a single man. A single man not particularly liked by those people making the decision who have little if any contact with the boy they are responsible for.

    Although this point isn't made explicitly in the film, probably down to the time of day it was broadcast and television's reticence at the time to address this subject, one gets the sense that their real reason for disliking him is a suspicion he may be a predatory child molester - hence they tend to ask him if he is gay. This archaic notion that gay people are more likely to be child molesters is an idea that still exists in many quarters today. Reality check people, paedophiles are paedophiles, they're not straight or gay, and tend to target the gender most available to them.

    Anyway, this film is a pleasantly and simply made drama. Richard Thomas here is the real star, brilliantly displaying the range of his character's emotions through this legal minefield, supported by an excellent little actor who plays the boy in many scenes. The emotional connection between them feels real, not forced, and it is difficult not to shed the odd tear. One can easily understand the main character's frustrations, making you root for him all the way.

    So, if you have 90 minutes to kill, give it a shot. While not a film that will win any awards for Production Design or Cinematography, the technical aspects you hardly notice as you watch it, you're more concerned with the characters and their plight which is how it should be.
    • FX_Lord
    • Aug 22, 2014
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    • Release date
      • October 6, 1980 (United States)
    • Country of origin
      • United States
    • Language
      • English
    • Filming locations
      • Tower Hobby Center - Tower Plaza Shopping Center, Phoenix, Arizona, USA(Thomas Rd and 38th St)
    • Production companies
      • Green/Epstein Productions
      • Columbia Pictures Television
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    • Runtime
      1 hour 40 minutes
    • Color
      • Color
    • Sound mix
      • Mono
    • Aspect ratio
      • 1.33 : 1

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