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7/10
A subtle movie about depression
zack_gideon13 March 2024
First of all, ignore all these moronic reviews that say "it's boring" or "it has no plot so it sucks". These people don't get it. They need constant action, plot points and shiny objects. If that's you, simply DO NOT WATCH movies like this!

This film only has a few settings, it focuses on negative space and silence, which oddly enough is how depression works. It also has a lot to do with suicidal ideation (that's the title so clearly).

The movie focuses on Daisy Ridley. She's quiet, awkward and might be depressed. These type of acting roles for an already established high-level actor can be challenging. She really knocks it out of the park. Her acting is very subtle and meta, and that's basically the film.

I truly enjoyed the film annd all the characters add so much value to it. Totally enjoyable if you like quiet, thinking films. 7.3/10.
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7/10
Daisy Ridley's captivating performance is the highlight! [+73%]
arungeorge1321 March 2024
As much as I loved the style in which director Rachel Lambert explored a few weeks in the largely uneventful (but..eventful too.. sort of?) life of a socially awkward isolation-enjoyer, what spoke to me is her sense of visual aesthetics. The port city of Astoria, Orgeon is a distinct character within the film, and its laidback stillness is something I grew to like. Several frames delineate the notion, and I think they sublimely complimented the life that Fran (Daisy Ridley) lives. She enjoys her work, but loves running away from the small talk that the office brings. She awkwardly exits office gatherings, including one where a longtime colleague of hers is retiring. There's greater meaning to most of these little moments, but not everything has a meaty payoff.

The film's delicate pacing is, at times, broken through banter between Fran and her new colleague Robert (Dave Merheje), as well as through sudden transitions where she ponders over death (..her death, i.e.). This is the most I've enjoyed a Daisy Ridley performance in years, and it speaks volumes when an actor can convey the right emotions through subtle changes in body language. Fran isn't much of a talker per se, but when she does, she's also less curious. She slowly grows to love movies and being around people, thanks to Robert's interventions. I like how the film addresses the issue of Robert being unable to fully comprehend Fran as a person. There are layers to her than even we (..as audiences..) cannot fully peel off. We know next-to-nothing about her family, and the circumstances in which she grew up. We know she ain't suicidal, but she doesn't seem to relish life all that much either.

Actually, a lot of unsaid elements contribute to further, deeper readings of Fran's demeanor. Her depressing thoughts on death aside, there's one moving scene towards the end where she randomly encounters the retired ex-colleague and learns how life is so unpredictable and difficult, underneath all the "plaster" that we add to it. I got to know that the film is based on a 2013 play called Killers, and it, sure as hell, makes for splendid material on the stage. I'm glad though, that Lambert decided to make it into a film, as mundanity of life is something that's less discussed in the world of cinema. Dabney Morris' score adds to the understated nature of its proceedings, making the experience even better.
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7/10
A little beauty for those into bleak, drab & dreary dramatic art
danieljfarthing27 March 2024
In bleak but interesting drama "Sometimes I Think About Dying" drab Daisy Ridley lives in a drab Oregon coastal town, working a drab office job. Her acute social awkwardness effectively stifles her existence, til a bond (of sorts) with outgoing new colleague Dave Merheje seems to have the potential to save her... but does it? Its dreary reality certainly won't be for all (adrenaline junkies beware) but Ridley is superb with some solid, understated support (inc Merheje, Marcia DeBonis, Megan Stalter & Parvesh Cheenah), the three person writing team nailed it, and director Rachel Lambert delivers with perfect tone. For those into bleak, drab and dreary art... this is a little beauty.
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It's an uneventful film but I love it
AfricanBro12 February 2024
First thing, is that this is a very depressing movie to relate to. Especially the character. The movie itself is pretty uneventful, it's purposely not trying to do anything conventionally interesting. I enjoyed it though just because of how deliberate that was.

You can feel how socially awkward Fran is. This felt like it was made by an introvert, the type that isn't an introvert of their own volition. I love how introversion is depicted as something we don't have a choice in. I think the movie does a good job at conveying her emotions in the moment. Daisy Ridley was fantastic. There probably are movies out there that depict social awkwardness pretty well, but this is the one that I feel did it best. Probably because there were so many awkward interactions in this where I thought "oh that happens to me a lot" Or "oh I those thoughts too."So it felt personal to me.

I also loved how the movie is narrated from Fran's perspective. It feels like we're in her head, and for the most part we don't get to see if other characters are judging her introversion for the most part. So we just get to see her inaudibly, through her mannerisms, ask herself oh is this weird? Was that a weird thing to say? This is weird, right? I think it's the perfect depiction of social anxiety, awkwardness and loneliness.

The only thing I didn't like was the argument in the car. It made sense but it felt unnatural in the moment, sudden and random. Otherwise the movie is perfect to me. Every now and then I wondered when this movie is set; sometimes I think it's the 90's because I haven't seen anyone play CDs in a while, but then the computers in the office are new.

A guy fell asleep and was snoring. Didn't seem like a movie that should be playing in theater. I think it's a movie most people wouldn't like or maybe even relate to, but I loved it.
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6/10
Hit or miss: aesthetically and tonally it works, but plot-wise and structurally it misses.
baron_von_brunk31 January 2024
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I appreciated a lot of the thematic elements of the film and what it was trying to convey with Fran (Daisy) and her personality, especially as an introvert and an office worker myself. Some of the aspects of Fran's dull office job and her mundane life as a recluse really hit close to home for me, as someone who has worked for many corporate offices and currently lives alone in a small New York apartment (granted, I actually love music and have creative hobbies, unlike Fran!). Some things that are established early on are how she's frustrated and irritated with coworkers - who all seem to bother her with their bubbliness and sometimes incompetence. If you've ever spent time at a desk job and dealt with annoying people asking you dumb questions like how to use Microsoft Outlook, you'd certainly sympathize with her too.

And in Fran's personal life it's well established that she lives alone with a very quiet life with no real hobbies, and unfortunately deals with ongoing inconveniences of apartment life. She hears noises from her neighbors, which again, as a New Yorker who's cursed to deal with constant footsteps and wall-pounding from obnoxious people, this entire scenario resonated with me all too well - almost too well. The elements of her office job and her home were shockingly similar to my own personal experiences, so I can only imagine the director has lived a similar lifestyle. I would visibly wince in the theater whenever Fran's character would appear irritated by her coworkers invading her space - since my similar experiences in office jobs were nearly identical.

Aside from being introverted and antisocial, Fran also suffers from depression and has suicidal thoughts; this of course is blatantly expressed in the film's title, but all throughout the film Fran randomly has fantasy scenarios of dying by various means. My problem with the way the film portrays it is how jarring and sudden the cuts are to fantasy versus reality, oftentimes with the edits seeming bizarre due to the sudden juxtaposition. For instance, early on in the film Fran looks out the window of her office to see a crane loading freight on a large ship. She then instantly fantasizes about hanging herself, and the instant cut from reality to fantasy is a bit too sudden. I understand the importance of juxtaposing imagination to reality - after all, it worked great in the PTSD flashback sequences with Rambo in "First Blood" - but in this film, the suicidal fantasies always seemed so haphazard and shoehorned, and didn't seem to take themselves seriously despite the heavy subject matter.

The film introduces a new hire at the office: Robert, a quirky bald man with a beard and glasses - giving off major 2010s Brooklyn hipster vibes. He's immediately very chipper and talkative, and despite his clashing personality compared to Fran, she develops a fascination with him. During his introduction the employees discuss their favorite foods, where Fran is clearly bored and irritated that she's forced to partake in the activity at all. There's a part when Robert professes his love of Thai food to which a female coworker also mentions it's her favorite too - and it seemed as if the director wanted to establish some kind of jealousy or conflict stemming from Fran, such as a potential love-triangle. This isn't the case at all, and they never really go back to the whole Thai food thing or make any mention of Robert and the other female coworker showing any admiration to one another.

The next incomplete concept that seemed like an abandoned plot point was a chat conversation between Fran and Robert, where he admits his confusion over SKU numbers - and then flat out admits he has zero work experience and thus allegedly lied on his resume to get the job. Fran berates him for this, but he seemingly laughs it off. Again, like the Thai food snippet from earlier, Robert's incompetence and literal imposter syndrome is never touched on again in the film: there's never a point when his lack of job experience has repercussions, none of the other workers call him out for being a fraud - and instead he simply carries on with only Fran knowing his secret. Fran never reports him to her supervisors, no other coworkers call his bluff, and instead Robert continues with the job despite faking his way through.

Next we have a date between Fran and Robert, which really bothered me since its basic premise seemed out of character for Fran. It's been repeatedly established that Fran is extremely shy, quiet, standoffish, and averse to having fun with coworkers - yet despite that, when Robert asks her to go see a movie and have dinner together, she doesn't flinch at all, and agrees to meet up with him without hesitation. Again, in earlier scenes Fran is shown as being very awkward and distant from her coworkers, so it didn't seem likely when she decided to go on a casual date with a guy at the office to whom she just met and barely knows. The two of them have an uncomfortable dinner and movie date, where Robert does most of the talking whilst Fran just kind of gives basic one-word responses and looks visibly uncomfortable. They also go on to have a date at Robert's place - which again, was wildly out of character for Fran - and it involved the two of them having more awkward conversations and even a random kiss. Their conflicting lifestyles and personality traits meant they had no chemistry: Robert was a bubbly social butterfly with a passion in hobbies like film and music - whereas Fran was a frumpy, quiet, introverted recluse who seemingly had no tastes in music nor movies.

Fran and Robert later met up with more friends and coworkers for a weird game that was basically like hide & seek for adults. Through more backstory Robert revealed that has been divorced twice - and playfully places the blame on himself for being a bad husband. In a very awkward and tense conversation between Robert and Fran as they're hanging out alone together, Robert anxiously probes more questions about Fran's personal life, which infuriates her. She completely goes off and yells at him that his ex-wives obviously divorced him because he's so annoying, and she tells him that he's too nosy by constantly asking questions. Fran runs off and goes home to lay on the floor and weep out of embarrassment. It's implied that she spent her entire weekend laying on the floor sulking, sleeping.

Later Fran goes to a small shop and sees an older coworker from earlier: a woman who was retiring and planning on a sea cruise with her husband. The woman informs Fran that she never actually went on the cruise, as her husband suffered a random life-threatening stroke before the vacation began. The news really opens up Fran's eyes, and the whole "life is precious and fragile" trope causes her character to shed some of her stubbornness and introversion - and basically pulls an Ebenezer Scrooge by coming into work to treat her coworkers with donuts and act a bit more amicable. In other words, with news of her former coworker's husband's near-death, Fran realizes life is too short to be a jerk all the time, and to just loosen up a bit. In the film's final moments, she's confronted by Robert, and Fran cries aloud by confessing her suicidal thoughts. The two then embrace, the camera pans out to reveal plant life in the room where they were standing, and the film abruptly ends.

I didn't dislike the movie, but I disliked a lot of issues with the plot and storytelling. As mentioned previously, there were several minor plot points that were established and never really touched upon again. It's as if the writers wanted to have subplots - like Robert's love for Thai food or his incompetence as a fraud - but then never came back to it. It just seemed so odd why they would try to establish elements such as Robert faking his way to get the job, confessing it to Fran (who's clearly concerned by it), but then never mentioning it again. I was definitely under the impression that they were trying to set up a callback later in the movie where Robert's lack of job experience would somehow affect the story - but it didn't!

What did I like about the movie? The realistic elements of office work, social awkwardness, solitude, life in a small town, and being a single 30-something absolutely stuck with me - and were executed flawlessly. Fran was absolutely perfect in her role and was very believably a shy, irritable recluse with depression. Daisy Ridley was also cute as a button but not superficial like most celebrities, so you could truly feel empathy with her character on a very realistic, personal level. Maybe I'm just being biased because I've worked in office jobs for over a decade and have admittedly "zoned out" into fantasy worlds amidst the monotony. Daisy also spoke with a believable American accent, albeit her dialogue was very brief and sporadic - so she didn't speak nearly as much as other British actors who've portrayed American characters like Christian Bale has.

It misses the mark in some of the disjointed plot elements, quirky Millennial humor, and forced writing - but it absolutely hits the nail on the head in its aesthetic of mundane office work, social isolation, depression, failed romantic prospects, and overall atmosphere in a small Pacific Northwest town with grey skies. Some of the movie's design, pacing, acting, and plot elements actually reminded me quite a bit of the cult classic "One Hour Photo" starring the late Robin Williams. If you've ever seen that movie and remembered Sy's depressing life outside the Sav-Mart, you can definitely see parallels to Fran and her humble home life. Obviously it's a far cry from Star Wars, but Daisy truly exhibits her versatility in her role as Fran Larsen: a depressed middle-class 30-something with suicidal thoughts and a complete lack of hope for the future. Overall it's a bit rough around the edges, but it wasn't a bad movie, and I enjoyed myself.
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6/10
Sometimes I Think About Dying explores the bland office existence.
msbreviews23 January 2023
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"Sometimes I Think About Dying tackles social anxiety and loneliness in a purposefully dull yet intriguing fashion. Lingering cinematography, atmospheric score, and a phenomenal Daisy Ridley - a career-best performance - somehow make it all work, but its uneventful, repetitive narrative won't be for everyone.

Still, after a good night's sleep, I actually feel more positive than yesterday, so maybe it's a film that will grow on people over time. As one character puts it, "it's hard being a person". And with that, I can fully relate to."

Rating: B-
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6/10
Sometimes I Think About Dying
CinemaSerf20 April 2024
"Fran" (Daisy Ridley) likes to keep herself to herself. She's very much on the periphery of things at work and goes home to her favourite cottage cheese and bed by 10.15 most evenings. The arrival of "Robert" (Dave Merheje) shakes things up a little when his request for some office provisions leads to a trip to the cinema to see "Departure" (2015). Though it could never be described as racy, what now ensues watches the two get a little close and a better acquainted. She reveals to him that as she looks from her cubicle window at the huge cranes loading and unloading the ships, she imagines herself swinging from one of them - and not in the way a child might! A chance meeting with the recently retired "Carol" (Marcia DeBonis) in a diner might help "Fran" recalibrate her priorities though! This is a far cry from anything Ridley has done thus far, and shows her as an actor of considerable versatility. The writing works quite well here, too. Sparingly used between the main characters but more plentifully used to illustrate the banal nature of her life at work - especially with boss "Isobel" (Megan Stalter) who has verbal diarrhoea in just about every way you can imagine. The story takes quite an interesting look at those (slightly) later in life who are in a rut and content to remain so but I'm afraid this whole scenario doesn't really make for gripping cinema. Indeed, at times the director seems content to leave us with only the superficial glimpse of the characters and together with the bleak and dull nature of the lighting, creates an ennui all of it's own. It's not so much that nothing really happens, it's that I wasn't really bothered either way if it did or didn't. The whole thing is all just a bit too lacklustre. It's fine, this film, but not much more.
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7/10
A very touching movie with unforgettable moments
massihsal17 March 2024
"Sometimes I Think About Dying" is a poignant and introspective film that illuminates the complexity of human emotions and existential struggles. Through its compelling narrative and beautifully crafted characters, the film explores themes of loneliness, depression and the search for meaning in life. The portrayals are authentic and moving, drawing the viewer into the inner turmoil of the protagonists. It is a thought-provoking journey that inspires empathy and reflection, reminding us of the importance of connection and understanding in a world where the thought of mortality can often weigh heavily on the mind.
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8/10
It's not flashy or dramatic. That's okay.
htryxgp30 March 2024
The energy of this film is in its stillness.

Sparse dialogue. No driving, linear narrative. The camera is perpetually stationary. Almost nothing is loud or abrupt. But it hums restlessly with quiet anxiety.

Your attention is never commanded, but your interest is rewarded. Fran is the subject of your observation, and she is in everything subtle and restrained. Every modulation of body language, shade of facial expression, and placement of gaze dispenses information. You are with her constantly and quickly become intimate. You consider her, wonder at her. You empathize with her; you're confused by her. You don't have to understand her. You simply see what she sees and feel what she feels. You are there when she is tense and afraid, when she allows herself to smile, when she indulges her desire and when she represses it. She's a particularly vulnerable human, and you are there in the midst of all of it. This film and its protagonist are beautifully small, shy, and fragile, and watching it is compelling if you can feel the weight of responsibility that comes with so intimately witnessing a person in their intense vulnerability.

Sometimes I Think About Dying feels precious in its plain honesty and total vulnerability.

It's not a story, just a person.
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6/10
A faltering start but it gets better
Boristhemoggy13 March 2024
When I first sat down to watch it I knew nothing about it and at 25 minutes in I googled it as it was literally boring the crud out of me. In the search results the word depression seemed to leap out of the screen in at least 3 results and I instantly got it. The 25 minutes I had suffered suddenly made sense from the perspective of depression.

I saw it not just through a lens of depression but also neuro divergence. Of course the two can go hand in hand. Some symbolic scenes were not understandable. But some gave obvious insights into Fran's psyche.

I do think the first half hour where literally nothing happened helped. (once I understood what it was about) It was setting the scene for Fran's life and psyche as being almost divorced from her surroundings wherever she was, interacting only where it was specifically demanded. It was as if she felt she did not belong in any of those places she was. Which is a common feeling for those depressed or ND.

I'm not a Daisy Ridley fan but I thought she carried it off OK, and her being quite attractive to look at helped because the more attractive a person is, the more people assume they have no faults or flaws. It's very good to dispel that myth.

Overall I think it was a good attempt to look at the world of someone with depression or a neuro divergence, but I do think it could have done much, more to get the message across. Nevertheless a solid 6 from me.
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4/10
Could have been great
redgenerall28 March 2024
If they developed it a bit more. A lot more, actually. It feels like a short movie's being stretched to a full length feature.

First 30 minutes is basically an intro and you can easily cut it down to 10. Then we get a glimpse of what could have been cause Daisy is great, Dave is great and together they're great. Unfortunately they're just not getting enough screen time. Instead we're getting tons of random shots of city, nature and everything in between. And then after all that the director just dumps the ending and the message. Cause it was time to wrap the movie up, I guess.

It also filmed in that terrible modern "indie" style with 1.33:1 ratio and percussion soundtrack that just sucks any resemblance of life out of the picture.

The result is dull and lifeless. What a shame.
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10/10
A beautiful look into depression from simpleness
romanrichburg29 January 2023
While this movie might not be for everyone, it leaves everyone with something to take away. The cinematography and scoring are perfectly set to make you feel as Fran does. There are many shots that leave you with nothing but the environment and quiet background noises, and while that may not sound like a lot, that is a big part of what makes the movie so great. That is the core of the movie, it makes you feel exactly as intended; empty. The story itself is basic, but with the way the characters are built and developed, the story can be overlooked as it only serves as a mean into Frans mind. If you have ever felt suicidal thoughts and depressive episodes the movie will feel like a respectful and truthful insight. It doesn't draw attention to being depressed and suicidal, but it displays the way it affects and shapes a person especially over a long period of time.

If you are looking for a fast paced movie that exaderates and focuses on depression this is not for you, if you want to see a movie that accurately.
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7/10
Sometimes I Think About Dying
FKDZ11 April 2024
Sometimes I Think About Dying, I think this is the first Ridley movie I've seen after her career in star wars, so.. quite a shift in tone. But a good film nonetheless. It allowed Ridley to show a lot more of herself and she deserves it because being tainted by a massive franchise is hard to break out of and really shape your own path.

Directing is something special here, and is what elevates this movie beyond it's subdued plot and somewhat lackluster story. But the beautiful meditative method of filming really sucks you into the world, but also the time and place, it just really slows you down. It's a very oddly relaxing movie. The into perfectly blends you into the little world you're stepping into. Just great. Paced well too, certainly didn't really overstay it's welcome but also didn't stick the land as much as I'd hoped.

The story and how it accentuates it with scenes like the poster, for me never really managed to capture much that the character was already doing day to day. It added another highlight, but not a layer or depth to the thought process. And if anything I wish we had more of that, more to explore. But it continues to be distant. Intentionally, in story, but also to the viewer.

Is this a movie that showcases depression that well. Nah. But it doesn't hurt it either, it's a perspective and I can appreciate the directing behind it. It has snippets of the real thing, also some blending of social anxiety.

Music was good too, used effectively. Sound design was excellent. Making dull quite rooms sound like dull quiet rooms isn't easy.

Good, but some potential left out.
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1/10
Sometimes i wonder why they make a film
jayviolette13 March 2024
I don't often review films unless i think it will save someone the TORTURE of sitting thru something that i had to. Movies like this make me want to be single again. My girlfriend insisted we give this one a shot. I thought it may be okay cause Daisy Ridley was in it and surely she wouldn't take a role that wasn't good.....right ???? WRONG !!!! I wish i could reach out to her and ask her WHY WHY WHY would you be involved in such a STUPID movie !?!?!?! I CAN NOT get over how boring, weird, slow, and STUPID this movie was ! The people that rate this anything over 2 stars are getting paid or have something to do with the production. And don't try to tell me it was an "art piece" or some crap. Not buying it. It was just plain awful ! It' s got to the point where i really can't rely on the ratings anymore. You can't even rely on trailers either !
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6/10
being shy is hard
o_oraculo12 March 2024
Warning: Spoilers
Shy girl works at an office.

She seldom shows her emotions.

She likes pleasant, quiet, slow things.

A new worker starts working in her office.

He seems to be open, and has ability to connect to other people effortlessly.

She starts to like him.

But he wants to know her, in order to let himself fall in love with her.

She hurts him emotionally in order to push him away, so he doesn't get to know her feelings.

She feels pain, loniless, and regret.

She apologizes to him.

She shows she wants to be emotionally closer to him, but doesn't know how.

He tells her: let me know stuff about you.

She tells him that she thinks about dying, and cries.

He hugs her. The end.

Opinion: Even though it's a movie which is based on subtext, which I often like, because it's sort of a puzzle to exercise your mind, there's very little nut (content) to get after you crack it.

"As good as it gets" does the same thing, but way better.
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9/10
A cozy chamber drama about the most important things in life
VioletShiny24 March 2024
The cold blue shades of the movie will be throughout the entire timeline. The plot will not surprise you with its unusualness, but the themes and emotions it touches upon are more important. If you are close to such themes as loneliness, lack of love, loss of interest in life and small victories that help you move forward - this movie is for you.

The slow, measured tone of the narrative may put you off if you are looking for a more dynamic movie.

Daisy is beautiful. The filming is peerless, almost the entire movie can be sliced into into beautiful frames.

Bottom line: if you're like me, a melancholic, dreamer, and lover of small, sincere indie movies - don't miss it.
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1/10
Contrived and insensitive
diegodmv17 February 2024
"I sometimes think about dying" could've easily been renamed "I have no idea what I'm featuring Daisy Ridley in a role that is rarely, if ever, seen in real life because it honestly doesn't exist, a female incel. The script is written by nepobaby Kevin Armento and a few others who I personally believe did most of their psychology research on characters using 4chan and reddit, and this presented very confusing, if not utterly contrived, characters with purposes and goals for existence utterly overshadowed by their MUNDANESS. While attempting to eschew a level of quirky romance the dialogue just loses any punchiness and the utter meaning behind any message in the film is lost. Seems to be a trend of people trying to capitilze on others misery but without understanding what actually makes them miserable in the first place, you come off as insensitive.

Let Charlie Kaufman handle the introverts.

F.
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8/10
Beauty In The Cold
steveinrowg17 March 2024
Based on the play "Killers" by Armento, and the 2019 short film of the same name, this film is about isolation, and the adverse effects that prolonged loneliness may have on someone. Fran, played by famed English actress Daisy Ridley, is our vehicle through the every day life of a young woman commanded by isolation and entrenched with dark thoughts.

We observe Fran's world as she exists within it - as a figurative ghost, somberly floating through life's mundanity. Life sort of happens around Fran, like she is transparent, or an inanimate figure that is only ornamental to the lives of her peers. The introduction of her love interest, Robert, played by Dave Merheje, is slow, and the bond that is fostered is subdued, almost translucent. The script and direction handles this frailty and understated life change with the delicacy of a small animal in your palms - the transformation that occurs through the awkward, stumbling feat of getting to know someone sends both Fran and Robert into a journey of self reflection and growth. I would also be remisce to not mention Marcia Debonis's Carol, whose candor is magnetic and wholesome.

The art direction of this film is brutally cold - not a hint of warmth is felt for most of the runtime, which reflects Iran's state of being, even after the fateful joining. This almost makes the movie's pace feel like wet cement, adding to the weight of the already palpable depression. Even the small sparks of levity that come from this artful rom-com fizzle out without creating much light.

This film certainly has something to say, which becomes most apparent during its seemingly ambiguous ending, though I don't think the goal was to leave us wiser, more empathetic, or even happy. It creates an experience for us - one in which we have found ourselves being Fran, Robert, or those who populate their lives. This is this film's special power, and there is undeniable beauty in the frost.
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3/10
Boring "characterstudy"
simonmattera12 March 2024
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One of those movies which leaves you at the same point in the end like you were in the beginning with no porgression, development or change. No climax, no drama not much conflict, nothing. I have never seen such a passive main character (Fran) in a movie like in this one. It would have been interesting to learn why she loves to think about dying. I know, its about depression. But still. Watching her lying on the floor for 8minutes straight is not really entertaining. Nor is it being silent the whole movie through. You urgently wanna grab her shake her body, to bring her to life. Robert says in the end scene to Fran "I don't know you". Well after 90minutes we all also don't know her still. So be prepared for boring office scenes and a non existent main character who progresses not a tiny bit in the whole story. The end.
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8/10
Daisy Ridley is a great actress
housermichael26 January 2024
I am a big fan of Daisy Ridley as an actress from the "Star Wars" sequel trilogy she did; "The Force Awakens", "The Last Jedi", and "The Rise of Skywalker". I also liked her in Kenneth Branagh's remake of "Murder on the Orient Express".

Now she comes out with a small independent movie called "Sometimes I think about dying", and I think it contains her best performance so far.

The story is about her character named Fran, who works on a computer in an office in a small town in the Pacific Northwest, presumably Oregon or Washington State. Her character is quiet and kind of shy. One of the workers in her office retires, and then a new man comes to work there. His name is Robert and he is played by Dave Meherje, in a good performance. He pursues a relationship with Fran, by asking her to see a movie with him.

"Sometimes I think about dying" is a nice slice of life romantic drama with some humor that I found to be very enjoyable and satisfying. The cinematography is very good and the music score enhances the movie to a large extant.

I recommend seeing this movie in a movie theater. It is a very good film. I hope it finds an audience. I liked it a lot.
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2/10
Just terrible
mdonal-4937314 March 2024
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A movie in an office about a girl and her colleagues. She is uninterested in life and tries to form a relationship with a new colleague. That's it.

Boring uneventful and dull. I like Daisy but it feels like they just made a movie about nothing just for the sake of making a movie. A child could make a more interesting movie. You kind of expect that something interesting may happen but it doesn't. The movie drags out and then just ends. I would recommend avoiding watching it unless you have nothing else to watch and just feel like watching anything. Very disappointing and meaningless movie. With alot of unanswered questions about the characters.
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9/10
An Excellent Look on Boredom and Awkwardness
chenp-5470830 January 2023
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Saw this at the 2023 Sundance Film Festival.

"Sometimes I Think About Dying" is a story about Fran, who likes to think about dying, makes the new guy at work laugh, which leads to dating and more, now the only thing standing in their way is Fran herself. The film does a pretty good job exploring social anxiety, depression and loneliness through a dull setting that feels purposeful. The narrative and setting isn't going to be for everyone since it's pretty slow but it worked on me.

The direction is pretty good, the camerawork and musical score does a great job capturing the setting and atmosphere, and Daisy Ridley gives a great performance. Ridley has been good in previous works before hand but here Ridley felt nature as you are able to understand her awkwardness and loneliness at the same time. Some of the visual presentations revolving around scenes where she lays dying on the floor in the woods, beach or grounds were fantastic as they were filled with great colors and dull yet striking visuals.

Many of the characters felt nature as if they acted as every day people in real life. There were a feel poorly written dialogue moments that were a little distracting but it didn't ruin the overall experience of the film.

Overall, it's a film that isn't for everyone but I really liked this one.

Rating: A-
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3/10
There wasn't any structure to this
burgerman934 April 2024
I can understand that it is a character study, but this has the feel of an indie film and most of it is filled with awkward pauses and feeble attempts at humor. The first 25 minutes were an elongated introduction, but even so I failed to recognize what the story was. I ended up turning this off at the one hour mark. As for the character who plays Robert, the love interest, he's not compelling enough to help bring a positive light to this film's murky atmosphere.

The music was actually pretty upbeat considering how depressing the main character's life is. Other than that there's not much to praise.
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9/10
Deceptively simple modern classic - could be adapted into a great TV show
jungletechno9325 April 2024
Although deceptively simple in concept and structure, this stayed with me for weeks afterwards. Script and performances strike a perfect balance between comedy and pathos. The Office-style office talk is hilarious, and I'm guessing that some parts must have been improvised. A few members of the ensemble cast are given moments to shine even brighter when we're shown glimpses of certain characters' personal lives, subverting our earlier assumptions about them, and here Marcia DeBonis deserves special mention for a heartbreaking scene towards the end. Casting is very strong; everyone does great work, and Daisy Ridley's performance is phenomenal, helped considerably by some thoughtful framing and blocking that really adds to the character. And while the abstract fantasy element works well, the other big star is the setting. The many gorgeous establishing shots and segues give the town a deep sense of place, somewhere it's a pleasure to inhabit, and left me wanting more. In fact the palpable "slipping into a hot bath" feeling I experienced reminded me of things like Northern Exposure and Twin Peaks - and I would definitely watch multiple seasons, given the chance.
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10/10
A thought provoking film
ariane-714-42720910 January 2024
"Sometimes I think about dying" unfolds with Dave Merheje and Daisy Ridley delivering captivating performances, seamlessly blending humor and poignant moments. Merheje's impeccable comedic timing and nuanced portrayal navigate the emotional landscape, while Ridley's versatility adds vulnerability and power. The masterful storytelling weaves a rich tapestry of life's highs and lows, prompting reflection on existential themes. To fully appreciate this gem, experience it in a theater for the communal atmosphere that enhances every emotion. The sweeping cinematography and evocative soundtrack amplify the immersive experience. In conclusion, this cinematic journey, with its outstanding performances and deep exploration of the human condition, transcends traditional cinema, leaving an indelible mark on the hearts of its audience.
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